We moved a little over a year ago around 150miles to be close to our daughter, and grandchildren. This was a decision taken after a great deal of thought, and discussion but we concluded that it was the right thing, particularly as it would enable us to spend much more time with the children.
A couple of months after we arrived our daughter informed us that after 17 years she wanted a divorce due to marital abuse. We helped her and the children as best as we could. Helped her to find a new home.
A month later she informed us that she was seeing a man who she knew from school, years ago, and was moving out of the area to his local area, 80 miles away.
Not long after her move, I had a nasty fall breaking my leg, as well as some minor injuries. We had no support, and found it very difficult.
Whilst happy that our daughter is now happy, we do regret the move. We can't afford another move, have no support network, live in a very rural area with no access to any public transport, shops, etc.
Think very carefully. Would you want to move if your children moved away? Do you really want to develop a new network in a new area? How would you cope if your children weren't able to support you?
Good Morning Wednesday 24 April 2024