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Life After Driving

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Anya Mon 09-Feb-15 08:31:32

Well judging by where I live, we all take to rather dashing mobility scooters. I quite fancy the metallic British Racing Green myself. I don't know their range, perhaps 20 miles (?) but I'm sure some have been souped up.

Seriously though for short journeys into town why not?

nannieroz111 Mon 09-Feb-15 07:37:53

Rubylady you are so brave flowers

Leticia Mon 09-Feb-15 07:23:22

My mother found it very hard. We did the costings for her and it was much cheaper to have a taxi than run a car, but she still wouldn't call taxis!
I can see her point - you lose the independence and you still have to call a taxi and wait. However she had to give up about 8 yrs ago and has got used to it in that time. It is a big life change.

rubylady Mon 09-Feb-15 02:07:18

I'm only 50 and gave up driving some 8 years ago now due to being so badly depressed that I felt I would be a hindrance on the roads.

My health deteriorated quite badly at this time, plus we had an road accident whilst on a bus, leaving me with another life long heart condition to go with the two I already had.

It has impacted on my life to the point of thinking twice if I really need to go somewhere as I usually use taxis to take me direct and back again. Or I travel with my brother in his car. This is because I only have a certain amount of energy and so if I traveled on the bus, then my time where I was going would be very limited and I would have to go home again very soon. I now cannot travel to my DD even if I wanted to because it takes it out of me too much to travel there, stay for a couple of hours to see the children and then travel back. My legs swell and I am laid up then for days afterwards due to my heart conditions. So now I choose not to go.

I do go on holiday because I can go one way, rest for a few days and then travel back home. If going out at home, I am away from home only a couple of hours and then back and back into bed for a rest. I am waiting for a heart valve operation so it might make me feel better again when I have had this and recovered, who knows.

But I am here, and there are plenty worse, so I get on with it.

chungc25 Mon 09-Feb-15 01:54:48

Hi ya'll.
As we all know many older drivers stop driving at some point in life and consequently spend their end of life without the private car as a travel option. I am wondering how we feel after we have given up driving, the choices and adaptations you have made, and how this has impacted your life. smile