My ex wants ds to stay with him this coming Christmas - I know, it's still only March! We split up when ds was 3 then ex spent the following 2 Christmases with us. The past two ex has spent at his own home with his new girlfriend. The first she was pregnant, last year with their dd. Both times ds spent Christmas at home with me and a week over new year with his dad, girlfriend and paternal grandparents. Ex wants ds on Christmas day itself this year. I've read various articles about alternating each year, but am feeling disinclined to agree to this. Ex lives in London. We live in northern Ireland. Ex visits ds overnight every month to 6 weeks and ds visits ex in London for a max of 4 weeks each year. London isn't like a 2nd home to ds - ds says he goes to his dad's for holidays. Any thoughts?
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