I divorced when my children were very young and if my ex's new partner had ever referred to them as "our"children there would have been fireworks! Their mum might be a bit difficult, but she could be much worse. If you imagine the children don't know what you think about their mother you are living in a dream world. You will give yourself away constantly, in body language and tone of voice. Kids often say and do what they think the adult they are speaking to wants them to, and they mix up dates and events. Perhaps you need to stop seeing the mum as the 'baddy' accept she is their mother and your DH is their father. They may have 4 adults who love and care for them but they only have 2 parents.
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