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It's MY garden !

(39 Posts)
merlotgran Thu 28-May-15 13:44:16

Maybe the little brat dear is a future horticulturalist who spends every Friday night avidly watching Gardeners World and was simply helping you out with some judicious dead heading?

Nah! Probably not. hmm

J52 Thu 28-May-15 13:38:34

Plant euphorbia, pyracantha and roses! x

kittylester Thu 28-May-15 13:31:08

Ashtree - grin

hildajenniJ Thu 28-May-15 13:19:30

The same thing used to happen at my childhood home. My mother was not afraid to tell children off for pulling the heads off, or pulling up the flowers. They never did it again, my mother could be quite scary when she needed to be.

AshTree Thu 28-May-15 13:13:34

Oh tell him off - and his parents as well. Can't abide ignorant people - they shouldn't be allowed to breed

Anya Thu 28-May-15 13:13:17

One of my favourite observations Roses , both for my own kids and the GC, is 'well they won't do that again!' grin

rosesarered Thu 28-May-15 13:09:44

I think that's known as 'tough love' Anya!grin

Anya Thu 28-May-15 13:07:25

Wire your flowers up to the mains, that'll larn 'em!

rosesarered Thu 28-May-15 12:53:14

We once had a similar thread to this.I think it all depends on the neighbourhood you live in ninathenana.Sometimes children may regard this as a challenge if you tell them off, and take delight in always pulling off the flower heads and you can't be watching out for them the whole time, nor would you want to be!If you live in an area where the children are pretty well behaved on the whole, then a telling off may work.

grannyactivist Thu 28-May-15 12:45:55

UANBU!
I do get very cross with accompanying adults when they don't help their children to learn how to behave well. Children WILL do naughty things, but it's the job of parents to teach right from wrong.
A few days ago I walked through a local park and told off a boy of about ten who, noted by the four adults he was with, was shaking loose a newly planted tree. The park was very busy and I was one of three people who all called out to him to stop at the same time. I explained to the boy that the tree needed to be firmly rooted and that shaking could kill it by disturbing the roots - in the meantime the four adults with him all pretended they were invisible.

chloe1984 Thu 28-May-15 12:32:55

Children of that age should know better,parents of that age should as well. Don't let them think you are the one in the wrong.

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 28-May-15 11:58:22

Perhaps you could put a little trellis along the wall? (I know you shouldn't have to)

jinglbellsfrocks Thu 28-May-15 11:57:06

Oh, turn into her! You have every right. Ignorant parents. hmm

ninathenana Thu 28-May-15 11:54:59

My kitchen is at the front of the house. We have a small front garden with a dwarf wall bordering the public footpath. I was stood in front of the window washing up when two women and 4 or 5 children walked passed. The oldest was about 10. He proceeded to pick the flower heads off the plants in the bed under the wall. At which point I banged on the window so he would know I'd seen him. One woman said something along the lines of "miserable old biddy"

AIBU or am I turning into the person we feared as children??