jingle - good to have you making me laugh again.
I don't expect others to remove their shoes when they visit but always check whether I should do so when I'm the visitor. When visiting Muslim homes, shoes are off at the door, no need to ask, just do it.
I'm fairly obsessive about either chucking j cloths or bleaching any cloths I use in the kitchen. I don't use those anti bacterial wipe things because they block up the sewers or need to be buried, don't break down easily. I do believe some folks have become totally obsessed with germs. Mind you, I used to have hens, went horse riding, brushed and groomed horses, mucked out stables and share my life with a dog or 3. No hope really is there 