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Healthy eating, but skipping rope ban in the play ground.

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gillybob Wed 15-Jul-15 09:46:16

I believe they are called Dinner Nannies these days Anya well they are at my grandchildrens school anyway.

Yes VQ DiL says she is going to phone the school and ask their policy in the use of skipping ropes before she mentions the incident with the dinner supervisor.

Apparently I have just learned that the "new" dinner nannie used to be a teaching assistant at the school several years back but left when the new head joined the school. She has only just returned as a dinner supervisor.

I can't understand how they can promote healthy eating/lifestyle on one hand and then ban (if indeed they have banned) skipping on the other although it wouldn't surprise me in the slightest.

Nelliemoser Wed 15-Jul-15 09:42:24

My daughter once defined my MIL as a "Cooking the dinner, dinner lady" and my mother as a "Telling you off dinner lady," Which probably says something about my daughter.

I think they should now be called "lunch time supervisors."

Anya Wed 15-Jul-15 09:34:17

Yes I agree with above posts.

Some Dinner Ladies (they're not called that anymore but I can't remember the new PC title) can be little Hitlers. I would certainly check with the school and also make it clear that if there is any come back from this particular woman you will be on her case!

Teetime Wed 15-Jul-15 09:31:02

Not sure this dinner lady should be around children!

shysal Wed 15-Jul-15 08:59:37

DGS5's primary school encouraged supervised skipping before school last summer, not sure if it has carried on. I enjoyed watching the team spirit and enjoyment when they were using the long ropes for several skippers. We can't wrap our kids in cotton wool, or they will never learn to see possible danger and act responsibly.

granjura Wed 15-Jul-15 08:45:28

Oh dear- how ridiculous. Yes, I'd phone the Head or better, go and see him or her- and follow up by writing to the Chair of Governors too. Of course a skipping rope can be dangerous if swung at others, etc- so supervision is a good idea- perhaps ask kids to skip in an area visible from supervising staff- but truly! I share your dismay sad doh!

vampirequeen Wed 15-Jul-15 08:18:58

Your DIL needs to contact the school to find out if this is really school policy or a badly trained lunchtime supervisor.

gillybob Wed 15-Jul-15 07:52:11

AIBU to think that schools should make their mind up? My DGC's school are forever brainwashing the children about healthy lifestyles. My DGC are becoming obsessed (yes that is the right word) about food labels, with my 7 yr old (Gracie) reading the back of a packet of popcorn at my mums last night telling me it had too much carbohydrate and sugar for the overall weight and was therefore an amber food. She thought she had better not eat it! She then told off her younger brother for having a donut (my mum makes a traditional tea, for them when they visit) again telling him there was too much sugar, fat, carbohydrate in them.

After tea we were sitting around chatting and she announced that the new dinner nanny had confiscated her (much loved) skipping ropes from her at lunch time saying that they weren't approved and could be dangerous! She was very upset and asked how a skipping was dangerous. Apparently (I wasn't there but she is a very truthful child) the dinner nanny said she was a very cheeky girl and "she" would decide what was dangerous and what wasn't and went in to remove the offending skipping ropes.

I spoke with DiL last night and suggested she ring the school and ask their policy on healthy children and exercise. Would the school rather they all sat about at play time? Perhaps if they all just lay down it would make life so much easier. No danger there. My GC are sporty children. They love running, jumping, riding, gymnastics, football in fact any kind of sport or physical activity.

I am very annoyed at the school who seem to promoting healthy eating but disapproving healthy activities. Surely one goes with the other doesn't it?