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Are we over emotional ?

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TriciaF Mon 11-Jan-16 15:56:55

I must admit my first thought, I wonder what kind of cancer? He was, or used to be , a chainsmoker. After one of my aunts died of lung cancer from smoking I managed to cut my smoking down and eventually stopped, after many years.

thatbags Mon 11-Jan-16 15:55:25

I don't think grief can be hijacked.

thatbags Mon 11-Jan-16 15:54:30

It was cancer that killed him. Anyone can get cancer, even 'virtuous' people who never take illegal drugs and who don't live strange lifestyles.

By all accounts he was a very decent man.

Anniebach Mon 11-Jan-16 15:53:42

Far too much coverage , 69 is too young to die yes pay a tribute but it is now 3.45 and it has been covered on rolling news since i switched tv on for news at 9am, before this is it was on the radio . He was a pop singer , that's it .

Imperfect27 Mon 11-Jan-16 15:52:19

I am so glad others are feeling the same. I was wondering about starting a thread myself!

As someone who has lost a daughter, mother and father all within a few years, to read comments like 'I was shocked / devastated' etc. made by people who have no personal connection and maybe just liked his music, leaves me cold.

I also feel it is distasteful to have so much media coverage so shortly after his death. I am really sorry for his close family who must feel their grief is being hijacked.

Last part of my rant (!) - to put things into perspective - the one time I made the mistake off posting something in memory of my daughter at an anniversary time on Facebook, it got one comment and three likes. The cute / dumb kitten video underneath it got over a 100. Strange world we live in.

Teetime Mon 11-Jan-16 15:48:45

I agree its too much for a pop star who took copious amounts of drugs and had a very strange lifestyle its a wonder he reached the age of 69 really. Not my kind of music - its was even on Classic FM this morning.

tanith Mon 11-Jan-16 15:40:14

I did have that feeling it was going to go on all day when I was watching BBC breakfast this morning. As others have said its terribly sad but people die every day.

thatbags Mon 11-Jan-16 15:35:45

I'm glad you started this thread, nankate. I've been thinking of starting one similar. My reaction when I heard Bowie had died was: People die.

I don't feel sad about his death. I'm interested to hear that he has died and it's quite nice looking at all the tributes. That's all. It's the same feeling I have when anyone famous dies... essentially a shrug.

That's life.

I like this one best: twitter.com/jesuisdean/status/686090202226528257

Charleygirl Mon 11-Jan-16 15:34:33

I totally agree, I have heard little else on every channel.

NanKate Mon 11-Jan-16 15:25:35

I woke up this morning to the sad news of the death of David Bowie.

Every time I have switched on the radio or BBC News24 that is the main topic of conversation The 1.00 o'clock news was predominantly about his life.

Don't get me wrong this news needs to be covered, but I just feel it rather too much. Hope I am not becoming an old cynic.

What do others think ?