I have been good friends with a lady 20 yrs my senior since we worked together. I'm 44. Recently she has upset me several times. She's incentive I feel. The other week she said I'd be pretty if I lost weight! My issue today is her absolute refusal to believe a famous singer could possibly have committed the crimes he's being investigated for & even if he has those 'people ' have left it far too long to complain! She already knew I'd been abused as a kid & I didn't get justice as I couldn't go through with an investigation. The person in question is in the paper again today & she started again with 'its been too long, they should have kept quiet' etc etc & I snapped! I said rather too loudly for a public place that I had been abused & I couldn't have this conversation with her again! ! She's obsessed. I'm hurt by her insensitivity and now feel the need to explain again how hurtful her comments are & how hard it is for abuse victims to speak about it never mind report it. It is putting me off arranging any more meet ups.
Please help ?
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