Maybe this is more WWYD? Last year and earlier this year I wrote extensively about my DD's controlling, isolating BF. Among other terrible things we were banned from seeing our beloved DGS. Thankfully, after much heartbreak and many sleepless nights, DD ended her relationship with him following the Disclosure under Clare's Law. Since then she and my DGS have had counselling and so much has come out but life is , slowly, getting back to some sort of normality although they are still living with us. I am still struggling with the whole thing; feel I should have done more to protect DGS ( who was assaulted) plus angry with DD although I fully accept that she too is a victim.
Anyway, we have discovered that exBF has a new GF. It is all over FB. She looks very happy in all the photos however it has been suggested by friends that she should be warned. DD is totally against the idea and I am really unsure.
You wonderful GNs gave such good advice last time that I would be interested to hear your views.
Stepdaughter - rude and nosy
New gran - can I be involved?
Family conflict - what to do?