Recently my DD and DGS came to stay and brought her sister in law with her two children. They are a nice family but the children are the most fussy eaters I have ever encountered. Mealtimes were not fun but I catered to their "needs/wants". My sister in law regularly comes and stays, particularly over Christmas as well. I cannot imagine going to stay in someone's home without taking some contribution towards the food/drink, but the only time my SIL brought something was a Christmas pudding big enough for 4 when there were 8 of us!! DD's SIL brought nothing. Am I being unreasonable to think that bringing something, or at least offering to is the norm?
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