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AIBU to expect my daughter not to be fined

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Nannarose Thu 15-Mar-18 12:36:51

Personally I think it deeply unfair.
There are hardly any cultures where attending a wedding is not regarded as an important part of family life and important to social development. There is time to write to the chair of the governors- maybe stating a willingness to pay the fine in order to ensure that the child experiences this.
However, I think you have to leave it to the parents as they know the school, the head and the governors best.

Back in the day before 'fines' one of my sons was all set to win a £100 voucher for perfect attendance. He then had to decide whether to forgo it in order to attend his grandmother's funeral. He had made the decision that being with family was more important.

eazybee Thu 15-Mar-18 12:23:54

It is the law; they have to accept it.
Don't make an issue of it.

granoffour Thu 15-Mar-18 12:19:54

My daughter's sister in law and her fiancé are getting married in York near the end of July. It's on a Thursday. My daughter and her husband are obviously going to go BUT they have to take my dGD who is in year 1 out of school (it closes on the Friday so she'd be missing school on the Thursday and Friday) They've tried approaching this with the head but he's simply said he can't authorise anything and they will be fined for taking her out of school. Is this fair? I don't think so. She has great attendance otherwise, apart from the off tummy upset or whatever. And she's only 6 years old. confused