Pheasant75, I cannot disagree with anything you have said. As far as the Politicians are concerned, it strikes me that the main concern is to appease people who shout the loudest.
Your hospital neglect of two in laws is just becoming the norm, it seems. Your so right apology does not bring back the dead, nor does it compensate the deceased for the suffering they may have gone through at the hands of those they should be able to feel safe with and trust. Nor does it take away from the relatives the feeling that we should have noticed something, those nagging doubts stay for a life time.
There seems to me to be a deliberate attempt to drive a wedge between the young and the old in this Country. Whilst we should never generalise, some of the younger generations for the first time I believe, resent the old.
It seems to me that living in a Country with benefit systems, although believed not to be enough, means that unlike my parents generation and those before them, who lived in poverty, and by that I mean, they had no money, they lived from week to week till they got their pay packet. When they said we have no money, they meant, they had no money. Debt was a no, no because that could land you on the streets, or at certain times in the workhouse in previous generations.So generally the working poor lived well managed lives, because the alternative was too bad to risk.
Today, poverty is hidden in debt, and being poor, does not mean, austerity, often the debt poor, are surrounded by nice furniture, certainly high tech gadgets, a car, at least a couple of TV's and of course the IPhone, or iPad, every child seems to have a "tablet". Some might go to school not having had a breakfast, and teachers are feeding them, but this is not because of poverty, this is because of bad parenting, poor domestic management, and lack of care. How much does a bag of porridge oats's cost, I get a bag for £1. Cornflakes, 60p for own brand for a giant box. Six eggs, 60p, milk, for four litres, £2.00 . Smart price loaf of bread, 30p. Smart price jam, 30p. I could go on. So it is a matter of priorities, responsibilities, and not expecting the world to take care of us. Now this is a generalisation, some will fall outside of this description.
Sadly, I think no one is brave enough to tackle some of these real issues. It is the fear of the self appointed righteous pointing the finger and making everyone who does not think that everything should be provided for those 'in need', is an uncaring middle class monster. It is the definition of need, that needs urgently to be addressed.
If there is no effort to provide for oneself or family, but people are living in hidden poverty but in relative luxury, through debt. How far should the Country go, how far should the Bank of Mum and Dad go to support that hidden poverty? For that is what we do, we support it, thereby encouraging the, we want it all at any cost, mentality. We as a nation are doing those in the above position no favours in the long run, by continually bailing them out. What has happened to personal responsibility and self respect?
There has to be a reality check. Those in genuine need, those in debt need to be assisted, but only once. Multiple bankruptcy is a way of living for some, because they loose nothing, they keep the credit card purchases,the debt is written off, and once discharged off they go again. This is happening over and over in a lot of cases. What is that way of living teaching children in those circumstances, it becomes a learned behaviour, that might perpetuate the debt life style in future generations.
It is 'tough love" that is needed, kindness, caring for those in worse circumstances than the general population certainly, but for that, there has to be a return, an expectation of change. Nothing for nothing. Those in dire genuine need will always need the care of the nation and the communities in which they live. Sadly the hidden debt poor, live at the level of uncontrolled luxury goods, and outward affluence, that hides mismanaged lives.