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My neighbour wants to climb my tree

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ninjagran Thu 09-Aug-18 17:30:32

We noticed a miaowing at the bottom of our garden this morning. It appears a cat has got itself stuck. The tree is covered in ivy and very tall so we can't actually see the cat itself though we can definitely hear it. I've called the RSPCA and their advice is to leave it - it will come down on its own. My neighbours however are insistent on rescuing the poor thing and keep knocking on my door. They want to bring ladders through my house and into the garden and try get at it. I'm not particularly happy about this and have put them off so far. Not just because of the ladders, but I also don't know these neighbours very well (they're at the back to the side if you know what I mean) so I know one of them by sight but that's about it. I'm not being unreasonable am I?

muffinthemoo Fri 10-Aug-18 13:57:52

Serious question: not a cat owner, I always heard that if a cat is up your tree, you turn the hose on full on it to get it down? I assume this is bad advice?

lilihu Fri 10-Aug-18 13:56:46

Ninja gran - I agree, there were some harsh comments that were uncalled for. Your house, your decision.

annodomini Fri 10-Aug-18 13:48:28

Good news. Cats are pretty good at stringing their owners along! ?

Farmnanjulie Fri 10-Aug-18 13:39:35

I would let people bring ladders through if there is no other way,it's a distressed cat,if it could get down it would,that's why it's meowing!
Sometime cats can go up but feel unsafe or frightened and cannot get down,it's also a icebreaker with your neighbours as well ,a common ground to get you all talking.

To many people are not community minded,help out when you can!
I cannot see why on earth you would mind!

OldMeg Fri 10-Aug-18 11:30:56

Did you consider that they wouldn’t be complete ‘strangers’ by the time they’d finished ‘traipsing through’ your house ninjagran and that helping or hindering sends out a message to neighbours about yourself?

OldMeg Fri 10-Aug-18 11:28:20

I imagine the RSPCA know what they’re talking about

Not always in my experience Maggiemaybe and I foster rescue dogs so have lots of dealings with the RSPCA. It depends on the quality of the person on the other end of the line, believe me!

ninjagran Fri 10-Aug-18 11:20:08

The cat is down. Or we assume so because there's been no noise this morning. Hopefully it's gone back to its home and plate of food. Bit harsh I think to tell me I'm being mean by not wanting strangers traipsing through my hallway. They didn't stay very long under the tree I don't think so probably gave up because I don't think the ladder would have reached nearly high enough. And yes, what I know of cats they would have scrambled up even higher. Crisis over I'm happy to say!

Greyduster Fri 10-Aug-18 10:42:40

Some time after the incident I mentioned upthread, DH reminded me that another of my cats tree’d itself in a tall fir tree in the back garden. There was no way (and no intention) of repeating the aforementioned rescue exercise. She did manage to find her way down onto some lower branches, and then he extended my wooden washing line prop - about four inches wide - as far as it would go and eventually she made her way down it putting one paw in front of the other ever so gingerly. They can do it. But I agree with those who say all the hubbub from the concerned neighbours is likely to be the main problem!

felice Fri 10-Aug-18 10:27:27

Our two cats can spend an afternoon running up and down the very tall trees in the garden, to tease the dog.
At first we were worried but then realised it was all a game, they always seem to come down forwards sometimes jumping over the dog at the bottom. They get on well together and it is great fun to watch them.
The cat is probably mors terrified of a lot of strangers making a lot of noise than being up the tree.

PECS Fri 10-Aug-18 10:23:03

As it happens yesterday, a person I know locally had posted on FB that her cat was stuck up a tree , miowing and appeared unable to come down. It had done this before but her neighbour had managed to reach it with a broom and poke it down! The neighbour was away so could not help from her side of the fence! A picture posted this morning showed the cat back home having breakfast.. down under its own steam!

HootyMcOwlface Fri 10-Aug-18 10:00:24

Is it down yet? If not, try shaking a tub of Whiskas Temptations cat treats, mine would rip your leg off to get at those.

Maggiemaybe Fri 10-Aug-18 09:24:16

I imagine the RSPCA know what they’re talking about. Though it’s not likely to come down while all hell’s breaking loose below it.

GrannyGravy13 Fri 10-Aug-18 08:55:18

Ninjagran is the cat down yet?

If not please let the neighbours into your garden to rescue the poor thing, it will be getting tired, frightened and hungry.

You never know, you may really like your neighbours, it's always nice to have a good relationship with people close by.

harrigran Fri 10-Aug-18 08:31:46

Just stand under the tree and rattle a spoon against a tin can or dish, watch the cat descend smartish.

sodapop Fri 10-Aug-18 08:26:21

I agree with BlueBelle and Bluegal Time to be a little neighbourly.

BlueBelle Fri 10-Aug-18 08:09:36

Sorry but I find it mean to not let them come through your house surely a house can never take precedence over an animal
I m not an over the top cat lover but I don’t like any animal upset or fearful
If you’re so worried about your hall just point out to them to be careful..... but really that’s pretty mean to not let them through

Bluegal Fri 10-Aug-18 07:54:13

Cats do generally come down themselves if left to it but may be frightened with so many people around?

How long has it been there? Maybe leave some cat food at the bottom and all retreat back?

If it doesn't come back in a few days then I would let anybody in to get it down. Don't you have a ladder yourself OP? I don't really understand you saying "you don't know these people" What better way to GET to know people. I think yes YAB a tad unreasonable.

Squiffy Thu 09-Aug-18 23:30:30

Cats can usually only come down backwards because their claws can only grip that way round. Squirrels paws are different, so they can run down forwards.

Jalima1108 Thu 09-Aug-18 23:11:28

I watched one come down backwards the other day - very slowly and carefully.
She's a very young cat too.

Beau Thu 09-Aug-18 22:53:01

My cat does come down trees backwards and seems to follow the exact same path he went up - he occasionally runs up trees too enthusiastically then panics and starts miaowing. I would let the people take the ladders through my house but then I can't bear to hear cats upset like that. On the other hand, I think they are very unlikely to be able to grab it but hopefully it might come part way down the ladder - mine did that the one time SIL decided the cat was stuck.

Jalima1108 Thu 09-Aug-18 22:42:33

I wouldn't have one, but could never hurt one.
And the best cat I knew got knocked down (and left) on the road sad

merlotgran Thu 09-Aug-18 22:37:48

Cats are not squirrels. They are good climbers going up, but not good coming down. Cats must climb down a tree backwards due to physics and their physiology. Some cats eventually figure out this concept and are able to work their way down from a tree

Eh? Our cat comes down forwards until she's near enough to the ground to jump the rest of the distance. I've never seen her come down backwards.

paddyann Thu 09-Aug-18 22:37:04

Poor thing ,seems folk here have the same attitude towards cats as the "driver" who hit mine and left him to die at the side of the road.Some people are all heart! After all its JUST a cat...part of somebody's family .Just like a dog in fact .

OldMeg Thu 09-Aug-18 22:34:01

That was from a Cat Rescue website.

OldMeg Thu 09-Aug-18 22:33:24

Poor pussy! I’m glad at least someone’s helping it down.

Not a particular cat lover either but can’t bear the thought of it stuck up there all night.

incidentally the RSPCA are wrong to,tell you that

Cats are not squirrels. They are good climbers going up, but not good coming down. Cats must climb down a tree backwards due to physics and their physiology. Some cats eventually figure out this concept and are able to work their way down from a tree