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Plain speaking, please!

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Bridgeit Sun 16-Sep-18 18:36:28

Is it too much to ask/expect that participants of reality /light entertainment programmes speak in a normal tone of voice without elongated emphasis.

It is also catching on in real life and it seems to be the thing now to speak in a high pitched tone & draw out & emphasise parts of each word, as in: Hellooow,Goodbyyyyye, Enjooooyyy
Soooooo Goooood, Ahhhhhh
Bleeeeese ,Cooooool etc.
Or am I just being a boooooooring Grumpy Old Woman.?

PECS Mon 24-Sep-18 11:38:30

Why do people want to be grumpy? If something is irritating and you can avoid it, it is not essential, e.g. TV, then just don't watch it.

I rarely watch the TV before 8:00p.m. I am using GN more atm as my "entertainment" as I have damaged my back and cannot get out and about or do the garden.

Agree it is different if you cannot avoid something that causes irritation but mostly we have choice!

thanik Mon 24-Sep-18 08:49:59

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Jalima1108 Thu 20-Sep-18 17:16:52

bring it ooooon!

Bridgeit Thu 20-Sep-18 17:02:20

I guess we have earned (earnt) the right to be as Grumpy as we like by now?

Jalima1108 Thu 20-Sep-18 16:32:32

turning into Grumpy Old (ish) Women

Turning into?? grin
I'm there already.

Bridgeit Thu 20-Sep-18 15:47:31

Shhuurely you mean soooooo boooring ,Granunkind ?

Grankind Thu 20-Sep-18 11:54:01

Yes - it is boring now Bridgeit!!!

OldMeg Wed 19-Sep-18 16:42:06

‘watevah’

Jane10 Wed 19-Sep-18 16:27:07

Yes or in modern parlance 'duh'!

Bridgeit Wed 19-Sep-18 16:21:29

Do you think we are turning into Grumpy Old (ish) Women?

Jalima1108 Wed 19-Sep-18 15:47:33

Noooo Bridgeiiit!

Referring back to your OP, I don't think that their ' reality' is my reality either hmm

Bridgeit Wed 19-Sep-18 14:37:36

Would that be twooo crowns ,Jalima ?

Jalima1108 Wed 19-Sep-18 14:16:00

That's probably why I ended up with two crowns OldMeg!

OldMeg Wed 19-Sep-18 13:21:08

Gritting your teeth is not recommended at our age. We need all the enamel we can hang onto.

Jalima1108 Wed 19-Sep-18 13:17:59

grin
but I really want to know

Jane10 Wed 19-Sep-18 13:15:03

Fogey alert! Grans at play!

Jalima1108 Wed 19-Sep-18 13:11:40

Robert Peston talks good sense if you can get past his way of speaking.
Yes, he does, but I do find myself gritting my teeth.

Re speaking Latin - I have often wondered (well, once or twice grin) if the Romans spoke their language with a kind of flourishing dramatic Italian accent, and if British schoolchildren reciting amo amas amat, mensa, mensa, mensam etc in their dull way would be the ones regarded as having a strong accent.

Thought for today, wanders off reciting Latin declensions

Grankind Wed 19-Sep-18 12:16:51

I think you need to check your last sentence Jane 10.

Jane10 Wed 19-Sep-18 12:11:09

Grankind. sigh. Well just you go on 'setting a good example' as you call it or 'speaking your own version of speech' as I call it!
Maybe we'd be better conducting conversations in Latin?! Or would you've complaining about 'correct' pronunciation in that too?!
Grunt grunt!

winterwhite Wed 19-Sep-18 11:55:15

It's the odd emphasis in the weather forecasts that irritate me - '... and more rain In the south on Thursday', when that's the last word we need stressed. Happens all the time/

Grankind Wed 19-Sep-18 11:30:46

Yes to all of that - I am not claiming that my grasp of language is superior in any way, but we all seem to be pandering to the mediocre when we allow these corruptions into our everyday speech. We 'Grans' Jane 10, should be setting an example and using the education we were given. It is much easier to run with the pack than stand up for clarity and purity in our communication. As for 'grunting stone age people' - isn't that what we are in danger of becoming?

Bridgeit Wed 19-Sep-18 10:09:07

Brilliant Jaxie?

Jaxie Wed 19-Sep-18 09:45:15

Bridgeit, I had a word with myself when I realised the effect that my merciless corrections of, for example, people who don't understand countable nouns and who say "amount" instead of " number"; "comprises of" instead of just " comprises" etc had on them. I realised that it was because my talents are so few I felt had to parade my superior knowledge of English grammar. Once I heard someone in the next garden teaching his kids to play the recorder. One kid said, " Dad, Johnnie says he's playing an A when it isn't, it's a C. " Let him call it an A if he wants to." was the reply. It taught me a lot.

Bridgeit Wed 19-Sep-18 09:33:35

Thanks all you cooool Dudes,I’m off to get down with my Besties ?
Ohh dear I’ve just remembered the 60s, cool man , hey dude, peace, chill out

Alima Wed 19-Sep-18 09:17:04

Sorry Bridgeit, have nothing to add. Just wanted you to know your post makes me smile each time I read it. So true!