My cousin and his girlfriend parted last spring. It was not an amicable parting as lots of hatred on both sides. We took him in as he had nowhere else to go. She has refused to let him see their 3 yr old since they parted. Well the little ones birthday was in the summer so we took a present and card. They were out so I text her that I'd left it in a safe place and she replied Thank you.
Xmas Eve me and DH called round and knocked to deliver a present and card as we do every year. TV was on and lights but she didn't answer the door. We left presents in a safe place and text her again to tell her. Then I found out she had sent my niece a message (She gets on well with her) saying "what the hell do me and OH think we're doing banging her door down and leaving stuff in her garden. Actually we just knocked normally. Feel really upset by it as I always buy presents for all the kids in the family (20 kids) and couldn't leave him out. Cousin has moved out now and is with new partner but has applied to court for access. What do others think would it upset you or am I being sensitive?