Gransnet forums

AIBU

To be told to consider going to Prague?

(55 Posts)
phoenix Tue 22-Jan-19 18:40:14

Now, I've got nothing against Prague, I've never been but I'm sure it's perfectly delighful.

BUT I wasn't over chuffed to be advised to go there for my cataract surgery! shock

Went to the GP to ask if there was any way that the very long wait for the initial consultation appointment could be speeded up, as I'm getting bad eye strain, headaches and driving in anything less than good daylight is a worry.

My lovely GP was on holiday, so I had to see his partner. I had been told by others that she doesn't listen, this was born out by the fact that she asked me who my consultant was, errm, I have just told you that I am waiting for notification as to when the appointment IS, therefore I don't know who it is.

She then asked if I had considered going private. I asked how much that would be, she said around £3k.

I told her that I couldn't afford that.

She blithely replied "Well, you could go to Prague, it would only be about £2k there" !

I will NOT be taking an appointment with her again, and when I see my usual Doctor, will definitely mention her attitude!

PECS Thu 31-Jan-19 21:09:48

Sorry.. terrible typing!
I may do the same phoenix pay for a consultation with the doc who will eventually be the person operating.. on NHS.

PECS Thu 31-Jan-19 21:08:29

I amy do te same phoenix pay for a consultation with the person who will eventually be the person operating.. on NHS.

phoenix Sun 27-Jan-19 17:36:07

I can stand it no longer, the thought of carrying on like this (painful eyestrain and headaches) until possibly April, then another 5 months until surgery is more than I can take.

I am considering paying for a private consultation, then having the surgery on the NHS.

Not sure if that is possible here, but will make an appointment with my usual GP to find out.

Goes against the grain, having paid my contributions all my working life, but enough is enough.

PECS Thu 24-Jan-19 14:15:32

YABU as the doc only said you could go to Prague. When my GP once asked if I had PH insurance I was shocked but on reflection they were just making sure all options were known. If you did have a spare few thousand you might feel it worth using on an op!
A pal of mine has just cashed in a pension that was 'for a rainy day' to have an op privately rather than wait 3 months.

maryeliza54 Thu 24-Jan-19 14:11:12

There are lots of things to consider if going abroad for treatment - one would be the regulation system of doctors and whether private clinics providing the service are a regulated part of the whole health care system - here all facilities are inspected by CQC and all doctors of course regulated by the GMC. No idea about the CR.

Cold Thu 24-Jan-19 14:04:20

I think that some people like to know what their options are if there is going to be a long wait but then again some people don't. I don't see what is wrong with the doctor mentioning options as long as there is no pressure to go.

I had the opposite from my knee surgeon who advised me that even though there was a wait that I shouldn't consider a private option for my knee replacement as my procedure meant that I would need an intensive care bed on standby and that private hospitals didn't have these

PECS Thu 24-Jan-19 13:53:36

Do Benenden staff with NHS consultant or have their own doctors? Not sure, if they are NHS staff how it would reduce waiting lists for others? I am waiting to see a consultant for a back op. who does 2 x days at the Nuffield as a private doc. If he was f/t would I be seen sooner or is his private work helping to reduce waiting?? I really don't know!

Caro57 Thu 24-Jan-19 10:55:40

I know of someone who went to Mexico for a stem cell transplant - health tourism is worth considering

jocork Thu 24-Jan-19 07:02:54

I have Benenden cover as a benefit from work and before this year had simply health cover which is similar. It allows you to get a quicker appointment for a referral to a consultant and also pays for spectacles and dental treatment up to a set amount per year. I'm due to retire in 18 months and considering whether to continue paying it myself then. I was puzzled how they could afford to offer that amount of cover so cheaply and was told that apparently people often forget they have cover so don't claim! Very interested in the information about the hospital in France. I was once hospitalised in France when on holiday and was very impressed by the treatment and the individual room etc. It turned out I didn't have the problem they suspected - something much less serious so I was only there one night but I bet if I'd turned up at A&E in the UK with the same thing I'd have been sent home. It would have been tricky if I'd been kept longer as we were moving to a different area in France the next day for our second week's holiday. Poor ex H and kids had to do all the cleaning of the gite and packing up without me - big bonus! wink

Nanny41 Wed 23-Jan-19 23:23:00

I have been told I have cataracts but they arent at the stage to do anything about them. I dont drive in the dark because of oncoming headlights,if my eyes do get worse then I will be able to have both eyses done here in this country where we live in no time at all from the referral to operation, only a few weeks I believe, but I hope I dont need anything done for years, although the success is 100% Stay at home dont pay a fortune abroad Phoenix. Good Luck

Grannyboots1 Wed 23-Jan-19 19:28:39

I had a cataract op last week, it went really well, the eye clinic was marvellous. From visiting the optician to the operation took just under 3 months. The surgeon told me to get my optician to refer me for the other eye. I live in Bedfordshire.

Deedaa Wed 23-Jan-19 19:18:26

My MiL didn't seem to wait very long for hers, although it was about 8 years ago. She was in a home so I don't know if they were able to hurry it along. One of my friends is having hers done next month but I don't know how long she's waited.

phoenix Wed 23-Jan-19 19:14:07

Surely it has to be in place prior to using it?

I had a quick look, and they do actually have a facility in Exeter.

Blinko Wed 23-Jan-19 19:10:15

Benenden is not a policy in the normal sense. At £10 a month, it's worth a look, surely.

phoenix Wed 23-Jan-19 16:55:43

I have no problem at all with people that some of you have referred to as "foreigners" and have not the faintest idea as to why this thread has prompted such comments, and am not impressed by them (the comments, that is, just for clarification)

Until he retired 2 years ago, my main GP was from Iraq, I first saw him at my post natal check after having DS2, who would have been 30 this year.

My gripe is with the casual attitude shown by the doctor that I saw, who seemed not to have actually listened to what I was saying, and who also seemed to think that it was quite the norm to

A) Have sufficient funds to have a spare £3k to pay for private treatment, or

B) If one didn't have £3k, then take the £2k option and travel to Prague

She is not living in my world.

Barmeyoldbat Wed 23-Jan-19 16:12:18

A lovely foreigner did my knee replacement, in the country on the NHS, and he was brilliant. As for the Dr who suggested you go private I would kick up a right stink about her attitude.

phoenix Wed 23-Jan-19 15:23:33

Blinko I don't have a policy with Benenden!

Blinko Wed 23-Jan-19 15:15:45

But with Benenden you wouldn't need it, Phoenix.

phoenix Wed 23-Jan-19 15:12:59

Replies noted, however dental treatment is not quite the same as eye surgery, albeit that cataract operations are among the most common and frequently done.

However, regardless of where the surgery is carried out, I do not have a couple of thousand pounds stuffed down the back of the sofa!

Anja Wed 23-Jan-19 14:49:12

Friend has had dental implants done in Spain. Needed three trips but still saved a huge amount and very pleased with results.

These ‘foreigners’ are pretty good at their job! Honestly.

Craftycat Wed 23-Jan-19 14:40:58

I'd check it out TBH. My ex (with whom I am still on friendly terms which is why I know) went to Hungary to have his teeth done. They made a brilliant job of it & it cost a fraction of the amount his dentist quoted.

4allweknow Wed 23-Jan-19 14:15:23

Having treatment of any kind abroad carries a risk unless you know the facilities and professionals. Don't know how many instances I've heard of when treatment, medical and dental goes wrong and it's the good old NHS that has to sort out the mess.

phoenix Wed 23-Jan-19 14:07:24

mabon1 if my optician says that I'm safe to drive in good light, then that's good enough for me.

At 60, I am considerably younger than the Duke of Edinburgh!

PamelaJ1 Wed 23-Jan-19 12:56:11

That doctor could have been me. Well that is if I was a doctor!
I often say things that I am expecting the person I’m talking to respond with a wry smile and a raising of eyebrows. I have tried to cure myself of makeing flippant comments buts it’s a work in progress.?

Maggiemaybe Wed 23-Jan-19 12:23:39

They have one fairly near me and I was impressed by the fact that everyone pays a flat rate, whatever their age or health. I might be have to consider this. hmm Thanks for the information, Blinko.