Doings
Your last sentence. In some people's eyes, those prior relationships will be sufficient for them to decide she's not fit to be Harry's wife.
The fact that Harry himself has had on-off long term relationships (not to mention some short term ones probably) will simply be overlooked.
This woman is being judged (and boy, is she being judged!) by old-fashioned patriarchal mysogynistic standards - upheld by an awful lot of women, IMO. Otherwise why do her previous relationships matter? And that's a rhetorical question, I know the answer!
Is it possible to remove a topic from "I'm on"
Terrible relationship with DIL - am I the problem?

