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Just a matter of personal taste

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paddyann Mon 01-Jul-19 10:37:44

Tell her its your house and isn't she lucky she doesn't have to live in it if its not to her taste .I have a friend who says things like "I wouldn't have THOSE cushions" or "not keen on that colour" and thats what I tell her .Enjoy your lovely new home .

annodomini Mon 01-Jul-19 10:33:21

There's textured wallpaper - anaglypta - and then there's woodchip. I have no objection to the former, in fact I've had it in previous houses but the latter is a pain in the a* to remove and I'd avoid it at all costs.

FarNorth Mon 01-Jul-19 10:30:17

Beige is boring.
Your DDs friend knows nothing about you or your house - ignore.
Enjoy your lovely home!

glammanana Mon 01-Jul-19 10:18:02

Silverg I am also a lover of textured wallpaper it looks classy imo so dismiss what anyone thinks its your choice,how can your DDs friend comment when she hasn't been to your home.
The only thing I make sure I don't do is have all over patterned floors and walls it makes a room look too small but that is my opinion and may not suit everyone.
Your home sounds delightful so glad you have got it to your liking.

Lynnieg Mon 01-Jul-19 10:04:12

That sounds lovely Whitewavemark2 Just my type of thing.
Everyone should decorate their home as they like. It's a home not a showhouse!

KatyK Mon 01-Jul-19 09:46:49

I'm not sure what it's got to do with anyone else.confused

TwiceAsNice Sun 30-Jun-19 20:31:06

We all have different taste when it comes to our homes and I’m sure any friends that come to visit will be pleased you are settled after your divorce and are happy. How you decorate your house is nobody’s business but your own.

As a fellow divorcee I remember how thrilled I was to be on my own in my own place and know I could choose anything I liked, I was paying for it!!

I hope you’ll be very happy and enjoy your new life

Whitewavemark2 Sun 30-Jun-19 20:30:49

I’m not at all keen on beige tbh. I think it denotes a lack of imagination or a slave to the Hoppenheim woman (is that how you spell her name?)

We have recently decorated our hall, landing and stairs and have used a William Morris wallpaper below the rail and a cream that picks up a colour in the hall runner above. The stair and landing Brinton carpet is sea green/blue and exactly matches the paper. Our hall has parquet flooring but I have bought a wool runner with the colours in the pattern. I love it. Couldn’t care less what anybody thinks. It isn’t tbh like other people’s houses but I don’t live there?

Sara65 Sun 30-Jun-19 20:27:23

You have to live in it, do exactly as you please!

I always do, I like really strong colours, couldn’t care less what anyone else thinks

Silverg Sun 30-Jun-19 20:18:18

Have just read so many moans on here about textured wallpaper and have recently had my daughter quoting her ‘expert’ friend who claims I should totally redecorate my house (she hasn’t seen it) even though I’ve only recently spent money on it. In fact, before said unexpected advice, I was just starting to like the small, 50s house I bought following my divorce and had started to feel proud to show it to guests. . I’m crap at DIY and so have paid a couple of different professionals to decorate - generally one room each year. The decorators stripped the old patterned wallpaper but replaced it with textured wallpaper they could paint over. You can tell it was a professional job, especially in the living-room which (I think) looks really elegant.. In two of the rooms, I’m also really glad I’ve slightly rebelled against the complete ‘neutral’ (= beige) fashion by insisting that some part of the room, even if it’s the carpet, has to be a different colour (beige carpets are a nightmare with a dog, in any case). To my mind, it’s all about the end result so I don’t intend to be a slave to interior design fashions any more than I am to clothes. Neither am I narcissistic enough to imply that my taste is the only ‘good’ taste - only that it’s right for me. So anyone who disagrees or who feels like bitching about my house when they visit knows what they can do.