Personally I would hate it.
Please ask SIL if she will at least warn her Mum to dress up and get her hair done because 'you should expect visitors on your birthday'.
If anyone organised a surprise party for me I would go home, or if incapable of physically going home without help, I would get really furious and refuse to co-operate. (ie I'd sulk)!!!
Although to be fair - SIL should know what her mum is like and whether she will love it or hate it. After all, she IS her daughter.
It needs discussing.
What were the first ever records that you bought and when?
Parents-in-Law. What do/did you call them?