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In praise Of Prince Harry & Prince William(please read)

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Bridgeit Sat 18-Jan-20 20:43:38

At 35yrs old, Prince Harry has served 10yrs in the Army , fought in Afghanistan
Started the Invictus games for wounded soldiers
Walked across the South Pole
Raised Hundreds of millions for charities
Helped raise 1 billion for 9/11
Supporter of 24 Charities
Lost his mother at a young age,( as did William)
William has also been exemplary in all he does.
If he is happy with Meghan , living somewhere else , good luck to him,he deserves it.
Time to give them a little respect.

Anniebach Sat 18-Jan-20 22:47:39

Big difference in being responsible for himself/herself, and putting self first at the expense of others.

mumofmadboys Sat 18-Jan-20 22:27:23

I just hope Harry and Meghan are very happy in their new life with Archie.

merlotgran Sat 18-Jan-20 22:18:47

I feel sorry for Charles. He must be very disappointed in Harry.

Anniebach Sat 18-Jan-20 22:11:55

He cannot be involved with ‘The Queens Canopy , cannot make official visits to the Commonwealth, there is no one
who can take these on.

sparkii Sat 18-Jan-20 22:11:09

Queen could have bailed out 20 years ago and let Charlie have a bash at the job. She knows her and Phillip messed up badly there.

lemongrove Sat 18-Jan-20 22:07:46

No, they have actually done a cowardly thing ( which may, or may not be interesting.)
Finding royal duties irksome, they have cut and run.
William now has no support apart from his wife, as the Queen is very elderly and Charles is no spring chicken.
Harry could have been a real help to his brother and may have gained something himself from the relationship, as they get older.
It’s a sad situation which the RF have to make the best of.

starbird Sat 18-Jan-20 22:03:14

I now think that it is the best thing for Harry, he doesn’t have the will and mental strength for the royal role, and Megan was never going to be number 2 to Kate and Charlotte. I’m not being nasty, that’s the way it is. I feel very, very sorry for the Queen who many say was particularly fond of Harry, and as I said before, for William who will lose his brother. Perhaps this is the beginning of the end for the monarch which may be no bad thing, although it will leave us even more in the hands of whoever is PM ( because the Queen does have a wealth of wisdom and experience to offer).

However, the main reason Harry is successful at his Charity work is because he is a senior Royal working in a climate of, on the whole, lovers of the royal family at home and in the Commonwealth. It remains to be seen if he will be successful as Meghan’s husband (or possibly, one day, ex husband).

sparkii Sat 18-Jan-20 22:01:12

Nasty, sparkii

Which bit?

My own belief is that every person is resonsible for himself/herself. And they have done a brave and rather interesting thing.

Bridgeit Sat 18-Jan-20 21:57:09

Ohh & I believe William has or can pilot rescue helicopters .

Anniebach Sat 18-Jan-20 21:56:49

I hope they will be happy, my own belief is you cannot find
happiness at the cost of others unhappiness

Iam64 Sat 18-Jan-20 21:53:27

Respect and thanks to William and Harry. Good to hear the family is working to support Harry in the new path he wants to follow with his wife and their son. I hope it goes well for them

Callistemon Sat 18-Jan-20 21:45:48

grumppa I agree, that is why we need a huge sea change in what we expect from our royal family.

We need a Head of State, we need to fund the whole business of Head of State whether that be through a monarchy or an elected presidential system which could be more expensive.

HM needs support now and Charles is 70, Anne is 68.

Charities, associations etc may need to look elsewhere for their patrons and presidents.
They may not do that with great success.

This could be the catalyst, but 'be careful what you wish for' comes to mind.

Callistemon Sat 18-Jan-20 21:39:18

Nasty, sparkii

Did you speak of your own parents and grandparents in that way?

grumppa Sat 18-Jan-20 21:38:57

At a purely practical level, the removal from Royal duties of York and Sussex (not to mention the elderly Edinburgh) imposes a heavy burden on those who remain.

Bridgeit Sat 18-Jan-20 21:38:19

?love it Sparkii

sparkii Sat 18-Jan-20 21:37:01

The old uns will drop off the perch soon and it will all be over.

sparkii Sat 18-Jan-20 21:35:56

I sincerely have never been much interested in the RF apart from looking at the clothes and reading what Oliver James had to say. These long winter night, I find myself doing a bit of channel hopping and Googling. What do I discover?

An outmoded , anarchic, deceitful clan of people, manipulated by a few key players; Mountbatten, Phillip, the ghastly plotting Grandmothers scouring the horizon for a virgin bride for Charles.....so well done Megs. Nice One!

Bridgeit Sat 18-Jan-20 21:33:52

Yes totally agree with your comments Calliestemon.

Callistemon Sat 18-Jan-20 21:26:59

I think that Meghan is Harry's route out of a future he was dreading.

I hope they can work this out, that the media leaves them alone and they can settle down together.

I also hope that he and William restore their good relationship and that the public do not put too many demands on William and his family in future.

We wanted a slimmed down monarchy so we must be content with what we wished for in the future, stop wanting to know about every aspect of their lives and let them get on with the duties we require from them - and no more.

And stop demanding that they give up their private residences and private wealth.
This is not a communist state although some may wish it to be so.

Bridgeit Sat 18-Jan-20 21:26:37

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lavenderzen Sat 18-Jan-20 21:23:06

Respect here to both of them from me Bridgeit.

vegansrock Sat 18-Jan-20 21:20:53

We’d have to gossip about someone else. Or maybe they’d be like those ex royals of countries which don’t have royals who live in Monaco or the South of France, and we’d read about them in Hello.

Anniebach Sat 18-Jan-20 21:19:11

He won’t , but if he did the next in line is George, I don’t think
William can do a thing about this.

Bridgeit Sat 18-Jan-20 21:18:04

Well it would be interesting, just imagine if the younger generation all abdicated
I think we are fairly safe we’ve still got Charlie.

Oopsminty Sat 18-Jan-20 21:14:25

What would happen if William decided to depart in a similar fashion?