to think that perhaps we should be more tolerant of fellow posters?

Well that’s us “tellt “ as they say N of the Border ValerieF
Might I respectfully suggest you perhaps reserve judgement when you have had experience of a wider range of threads?
Yes, fuses are a bit short in some areas - hardly surprising under the present circumstances, when many are confined to barracks, isolated and deprived of company if they live alone and bearing the worry of AC or DGC under threat from Covid 19 or even suffering.
To paraphrase veni, vidi, vici,
You came, you saw, you judged
Dont expect those whom have criticised to roll over and ask for more though.

Smileless occasionally and I didn't see it today.

What a shame I missed it, a great word, loved by some but disliked by other Gransnetters!!

I have a theory, lemongrove

Rufus2 is our Antipodean member
Rufus is Rufus Sewell, mentioned so many times on various threads that he must be an honorary member of GN.

Merlotgran perfect example of a member sticking their oar in! What is it to you? Am genuinely interested, as to why you feel it is for you to suggest I go on another site? What does it matter to you personally? Seriously, what does it matter? Why do you feel you need to tell me this? Are you feeling 'Gransnet' is a 'closed' group in some way? Only certain people are worthy of it perhaps? I am trying to work it all out.

Valerief stick with it, you’ll get used to the rough and tumble, of course some things get muddled as they do when it’s written rather than speaking face to face.
Some things are a bit !!, and you think ‘ where did that come from’ but most spats are soon forgotten and everyone usually ends up friends ( well that might be a bit optimistic ) at the end.
There are some that always jump in with the same old complaints, whatever the original thread is about, but another view is always interesting don’t you think?
Just work around them.
I was jumped all over this evening when I misread a post due to being vain and refusing to wear my glasses, I was royally pounced on, but I did apologise.
You’ll get used to it.
If we all agreed every time it would be so boring.

You sound as though you're not enjoying Gransnet, ValerieF

There are some disagreements and they can sometimes become heated with some posts ending up in the deletion bin but on the whole it's a very supportive site with a good smattering of humour.

Given the situation we are all in at the moment I doubt it's all going to be plain sailing. Nothing like boredom to make people tetchy.

Might I suggest you find another site that is more to your taste?

I agree with you fourormore. I thought this site would be for people to speak, get to know each other, express their feelings but quickly found out you can only express your feelings so long as certain people agree with you? If not, watch out! I don't understand why people feel they can impose their own feelings on anyone else? Give advice to original posts, yes but nobody should actually be able to criticise anyone else for giving advice to an original post? I am astounded by how many people feel it is "their way or the highway" Some very rude posts which are directed to responses to posts which I find unacceptable. Everyone is entitled to their thoughts/opinions and the original poster can decide for themselves if they want to take it on board or ditch it! Not up to other members to stick their oar in and try to belittle a post, which seems to happen a lot as far as I can see.

No Smileless although I know it’s a gameshow/quiz.
I only really watch tv dramas or comedy.It’s a good word that covers a multitude of sins.?

Do you watch 'The Chase' lemongrove? the definition of discombobulation was one of the questions, yesterday I think, and the chaser got the answer wrong!!

I was rather pleased with myself because I got it right.

No ?

Have come to this thread late ( and missed the deleted thread altogether) but I am discombobulated by the chat of two Rufus members......how will will know who is who??
Are they twins?

Have not been following this thread but seen the name of grandad mentioned. so, I am one of the few grandads on here that actually has the name of grandad in his title, so what has the grandad done that makes the name of grandad mentionable as being a grandad I am wondering.

Anybody follow the above. ???

merlotgran it is rather like a jumper that has been got at by moths, full of holes

It's ok rafichagran We are all quite stressed
I'm not working but anxious about family members who are.

No Call I was a bit touchy, just very tired. I am still working still and the stress is getting to me. I am sorry too.

Sorry rafichagran I wasn't being sarcastic at all

Doesn't that just go to show, though if someone had said that to me I would have thought it was very funny and laughed, but you thought I was being sarcastic.

We have to be so careful online.

Sorry

I've just come in from the garden and this thread is like tripping over bomb craters.

Very

No I did not have a hiccup, I read the thread very late and saw lots of deletions, I did not read what was said as it had already been deleted.
I think the original poster made a fair statement, so I cannot see the reason to make mean comments.
No need to be sarcastic.

Am I getting ? Please be tolerant, I'm an old lady!

There’s another Rufus? ??

Yes, we should be more tolerant of fellow posters.

Two Rufus's Elegran?


We could get

Did you have a hiccup rafichagran!!

I don't think anyone on the GN welcome thread would be unkind.
And I can't think of anyone at all who would be unkind about anyone losing a beloved pet.

Perhaps you misunderstood unanimous

Goodness, why deletions?

I can assure you, unanimous that MawBroon would never be unkind about you losing your dog; we have all followed her own stories about her beloved dogs with great interest.

Mean spirited ? Watch out for the thought police. Its not the intolerant posters who will drive me away but the censorship of GN.

we should be tolerant.