I have a 95 year old Mother who has recently not been so well. My sister lives up the road from her, but I live 3 hours drive away. At the start of lockdown, neither my sister or I visited but we called and skyped. However, mum became ill and my sister then popped in and out to make sure she was ok and had decent meals to eat and tidy up. Eventually my sister felt she couldn’t cope so I decided, lockdown or not, I would need to stay with Mum for a week to provide a break from my sister. I have done that for 3 individual weeks. Leaving my husband each time. Now my sister says I need to stay one week in 2 whereas I don’t feel able to do that as I’m leaving my husband on his own each time. I miss him and my own home. I am happy to take Mum to my house for numerous weeks at once but my sister doesn’t want that. She is not speaking to me at all anymore; not even to arrange dates when we each look after Mum. I feel constantly stressed and anxious about this. What should I do?
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