colette13
Mamie5 - OMD - I am exactly the same - it's Tuesday today and I am half-way through my weekly ordeal - looking after grandchildren - two girls (aged 4 & 7).Have them Mon-Weds from 07.00 am to approx.2.30 in the afternoon and due to poor health spend Thursday to Sunday trying to recover.Do not remember being asked to do this - it just kind of happened - had the younger one - which I could cope with - and then closure of schools (covid) - meant I was expected to look after the older one as well.Love them to bits but they fight like cat and dog and eat me out of house and home - spend the majority of my time standing in the kitchen.They have folders of homework that I have compiled and do with them - pencils,crayons,paper - access to garden bikes/scooters etc etc.And they still constantly argue -whinge - answer me back - so I agree with all you say.Whilst I love them - I feel put upon and stressed.My daughter is contrary - choosing not to work when she was childless and deciding she needed to when she had her children.Roll on Thursday - all the best to you - I sympathize.
this sounds like servitude.
why is your health and well-being of so little importance.
you have the right to rest and relaxation, to recreation, not just recovery time from the weekly onslaught.
this is wrong.
please collette13, could you contact your GP, cry if you feel like it. tell it how it is. ask whether you could tell your daughter that the doc says you need to have complete rest, for the foreseeable future. no more child-minding duties.
you sound to be on the point of collapse. it's not right.
also Greciangirl. do not subsume your right to live without imposed stress, and emotional leverage, FOG etc. fear. obligation. guilt.