MissChateline
For 15 years we were very good friends and next door neighbours. She visited and ate and drank regularly at our house. We shared confidences and circumstances. Suddenly her circumstances changed she lost her job, made poor financial decisions and got into difficulties. Other employment ideas fell apart. Despite all of the support and assistance given by myself and other direct neighbours she became nasty and abusive to all of us. She started making wild accusations about each one of us and generally trying (and failing) to turn neighbour against neighbour. At one point one neighbour was so concerned about her circumstances and mental health that she contacted our neighbours mother who immediately came up north to try to help. We all know the mum and have hosted her and her daughter for Xmas get togethers. So we do know the circumstances both financial and personal. It is only in the past couple of months when the accusations became more outrageous and nasty that each of us individually decided that not engaging with her screaming matches and general unpleasant behaviour was the best option.
We are a friendly terrace with a shared right of way at the rear of our houses. But we are all concerned about fire safety in particular.
When you hurt- you hurt.
In other words when things went wrong and it hurt her, the only line of defence was to hurt others.


