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Gramm Wed 03-Feb-21 13:34:57

wollysocks Wed 03-Feb-21 13:37:10

Women are expected to be kind and validating to this type of harmful delusion

paddyanne Wed 03-Feb-21 13:58:12

Abuse comes in many forms ,sadly there are a lot of women who dont realise it IS abuse .We can only keep educating our girls in an effort to save them from this vile stuff

keepingquiet Wed 03-Feb-21 14:42:44

Offering a baby for this person to breast feed is bordering on child abuse but ultimately what this person is doing seems pretty harmless (if not expensive!) in the great scheme of things.

Esspee Wed 03-Feb-21 14:52:44

OMG whatever next?

Hithere Wed 03-Feb-21 16:00:36


Tabbycat Wed 03-Feb-21 16:22:35

A strong stomach is needed for this one

Is this for real? Is someone trying to provoke a reaction?

EllanVannin Wed 03-Feb-21 16:26:44

Good Lord----just that, Good Lord.

Susiewong65 Wed 03-Feb-21 16:43:52

I have no words !!

timetogo2016 Sat 20-Feb-21 12:27:25

I have the words for sure,but i would be in trouble if i aired them.

Madgran77 Sat 20-Feb-21 15:24:05


Georgesgran Sat 20-Feb-21 15:38:31

Just bizarre and nasty.
So, his soon to be ex-wife is ‘uncooperative’. She should be taking her children and running for the hills!

Now electrically stimulated contractions and a water birth - that would be interesting!! Pity it’s been decided against.

AGAA4 Sat 20-Feb-21 16:02:34

One of my colleagues sadly gave birth to a dead baby. The story on facebook is obscene.

simtib Sat 20-Feb-21 16:30:16

I think Men would have a similar reaction to you on this story.

He did put it up on facebook so quite likly as Tabbycat says he is doing it for the shock effect.

Blinko Sat 20-Feb-21 16:37:45

Imo this guy has psychological issues. Needs therapy, not validation.

TrendyNannie6 Sat 20-Feb-21 16:39:30


Shinamae Sat 20-Feb-21 16:43:06


sazz1 Mon 22-Feb-21 12:16:52

Agree with Blinko definitely mental health issues and nothing to do with being transgender.

chazwin Mon 22-Feb-21 13:38:51

It's none of any of your business.
This person has some issues with thier personal perception of themselves.
S/he does not need your scorn, or your judgement.
Look to your selves.

GagaJo Mon 22-Feb-21 15:29:44

Thank you chazwin. Whatever happened to compassion?

Amberone Mon 22-Feb-21 16:03:57

Why is this thread titled 'Men' ??? Because it is about A Man?
Have I missed something?

Ro60 Tue 23-Feb-21 13:50:39

Chazwin: It was put on FB everyone is entitled to respond. No-one is scornful but this is GN we're having polite discussion.

Esspee Tue 23-Feb-21 14:00:37

Sorry Chazwin I don’t agree that it is none of our business. This travesty is receiving positive encouragement while the voice of the sane majority is being shut down.

Doodledog Tue 23-Feb-21 15:04:11


Chazwin: It was put on FB everyone is entitled to respond. No-one is scornful but this is GN we're having polite discussion.

I agree. If this had been a private matter, or even if it had been posted on a page with 'friends only' access, I would say it was none of our business, but as it is, it is almost inviting comment.

I think it is strange, but, apart from 'borrowing' a baby to feed, which cannot be consensual, it doesn't appear to be harming anyone in itself.

Now that it's all over social media, I'm not sure about the impact on his existing children, though. It all seems extremely self-indulgent and attention-seeking.

Katie59 Tue 23-Feb-21 16:35:06

This person is living out his fantasy, just like the “ person” in the feminist thread who wakes up every morning and decides “ do I want to be Male or Female today “ and dresses accordingly, day by day.

There are crazy individuals getting publicity, is it exhibitionism to get attention, ridicule is more likely.