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Jobsworths.

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Dorsetcupcake61 Thu 11-Mar-21 12:46:20

It is tricky. In the past year I have ventured out out a handful of times. The first time was last summer with my daughter and we went to a local cafe at a time when it was empty! I must admit I felt quite flustered trying to be aware of rules that by then were second nature to others.
This year it has been medical appointments and a trip to post office and superdrug yesterday. Both were virtually empty so kept mask on and followed signs. Medical appointments more straightforward.
I havent been in a supermarket and as yet dont want to! Tbh if I was half way out of door already I doubt I would have gone back,just muttered a very embarrassed sorry!
I empathise with supermarket workers but maybe a polite "are you aware" ,especially as so quiet,would have been better. It would have given you the opportunity to explain, and as another poster said maybe try out the alternative exit for next time.

eazybee Thu 11-Mar-21 12:44:43

I would have apologised and used the correct door; the intention is to avoid contact with other customers as much as possible.

dustyangel Thu 11-Mar-21 12:42:12

I’d have done exactly as you did Kitty, and then worried about it afterwards.

B9exchange Thu 11-Mar-21 12:38:38

I think it would have depended how close to the exit I was. A few feet and I would just have gone out and ignored her, on the grounds that it would have been perfectly safe to carry on, a bit like not stopping sharply at a suddenly changed amber traffic light with cars close behind me, safer to continue. Any further in and I would have apologised and followed her instructions, but angrily shouting at someone for something they have forgotten or not understood is never acceptable.

suziewoozie Thu 11-Mar-21 12:38:09

I agree with the majority of posters on here. If I hadn’t been out for ages, I would have realised things have changed and been very careful to do the right thing. I think it’s very unkind to call someone doing a very necessary ( probably low paid) job a ‘ jobsworth’. Millions of people have worked hard at keeping us safe over the last year and they deserve out thanks and respect. The least we can do is follow the signs

Septimia Thu 11-Mar-21 12:31:45

So most people would have gone back and out of the correct door. I honestly don't know what I would have done.

I do know that I'd have been extremely embarrassed, to the point of tears, and would be very reluctant to go there again.

Galaxy Thu 11-Mar-21 12:26:52

I would have gone back through the right door and I hope I would have apologised. I think shop workers have just had a horrendous time this year. I watched a shop worker asking someone to leave yesterday as they werent wearing a mask, it was a really uncomfortable situation and one they must experience multiple times a day.

timetogo2016 Thu 11-Mar-21 12:22:34

I have done that too and so have others.
I would have done the same as you,there are ways to tell you and a little polite reminder would have been much nicer.
Yes they have their job to do for safety reasons , but i`ve noticed it`s gone to some peoples head.

Jaxjacky Thu 11-Mar-21 12:22:12

I would have gone back, apologised and used the correct door, shop empty or not for the reasons already expressed.

Shropshirelass Thu 11-Mar-21 12:00:39

Yes I would have gone back and out through the new exit door. I would have said sorry and explained first visit in over a years didn’t know. Door security have had a thankless task over the last 12 months, it can be confusing in the shops if you have t bed; in for ages.

Ellianne Thu 11-Mar-21 11:54:30

It's going to take some re adjusting for those who haven't been out and about for the past year. Things are very different now. The trouble is as no one wears a label to say this is their first outing, the security guard doesn't know this and treats everyone the same.
I would probably have gone back to use the correct door, if only to practise the procedure for next time.

Riverwalk Thu 11-Mar-21 11:45:35

You were probably the umpteenth person to go out the wrong door - she has a job to do.

Yes, I would have used the other exit - you said you were almost outside, so not outside and expected to go back in.

As you haven't shopped for a year, you've missed what most of us have been doing, that is trying to do the right thing.

cornishpatsy Thu 11-Mar-21 11:40:37

I think it has been very difficult for shopworkers, they are low paid, do not get the thanks and respect other key workers have got and have been on the front line throughout the pandemic.

Many, many times a day they are asking people to wear masks, to shop alone and observe the entrance and exit directions. They are often ignored and subject to abuse. So, yes I can see why she was abrupt when you ignored the signs and just carried on regardless.

I would have apologised and gone back through the correct exit.

kircubbin2000 Thu 11-Mar-21 11:30:39

I have been to Sainsbury for the first time in nearly a year as son has been doing my shopping. I was up early and just felt like getting out so I had finished by 8.30.
As I was leaving , the security woman shouted at me that I was leaving by the wrong door, the entrance one, which I have always used before covid.She told me angrily to go back and out the far door.
As the shop was empty and I was almost outside I left and told her I'd know the next time. Would you have gone back into the shop and used the other exit?