Tradesmen? I’m sick of them!

I gave up years ago trying to find tradesmen to do anything. No one wants to do the small jobs these days, they all think they should be building grand designs

I have homecare, pricey but worth it for a single oap ?

This certainly strengthens the case for more apprenticeships.

Not only tradesmen but trades men who work with housing associations.

My dd lives in council house association, she works full time, council tried to arrange electric and gas check.

They didn't do out of hours, dd was sent threatening letters about her not allowing them to do the checks (she was working and the time slots were "all day" 9-5 .)

After one more nasty letter she rang them again and could not believe that they said " we can come at 6.00(18.00) hrs!! she said I was told you "don't do" evenings.

Anyway in the end they said they can do Sat morning 8-1pm

So dd was up early on her day off, waited and waited ....and waited...... yes you guessed it "no show" we had planned to go for walk.

I said right it's 1.30go stand at door take selfie with door in background and if they say "you wern't in" them give them a right ((*&^^%%$%%%%%)!!! yes they make you sick., the lot of them!! arsole$

If this a is a contest, I am winning! The gas man/plumber is supposed to be removing my old Rayburn, disconnecting the water and plumbing in my new cooker which arrived last Saturday still in its box
The old Rayburn was condemned back in July and I have been leaving messages and emailing since then.
His wife once told me he didn't get home until 10pm sometimes. Where is he - in the pub? at yours?
It is complicated because the electrician needs to liaise with him to upgrade the wiring (it's a dual fuel cooker)
I could cry.

There are other tradesmen in the town but I daresay it would be just as hard to get them out.

Bad experience with Corgi, non-arrival, ordered wrong parts took over a fortnight to fix the boiler so we are looking for someone else. The reason we moved from British Gas was inability to arrive for appointment and servicing of a boiler which broke down within the week after they came.

Don’t feel stupid greyd, the deep end is there for a reason, saves resorting to violence .

We’ve had similar experiences. It infuriates me beyond reason. It takes two minutes to phone, less to text. There are good tradespeople out there. A plumber phoned to say she would be just ten minutes late yesterday. The shock lasted all day here . Hope the next one is better behaved.

Greyduster I feel your pain.

We recently found a great guy, jack of all trades who is really good, reasonably priced and pleasant to have around.

My neighbour came round when she saw him doing a small roofing job for us and hijacked him, she has since passed his details on to all her friends.

He does still come to us possibly because I do a mean bacon butty but may have to start doing champagne breakfasts, 3 course lunches and dinner to go.

So many tradespeople seem to think they are master craftsmen then overcharge, bodge the job when they decide to turn up and break something else in your home whilst there.
I've truly lost faith in the lot of them to be honest
They should all be renamed bodge and scarper limited cos you'll never hear from them again of you complain

I've just remembered I'm still waiting for the joiner to board the loft - in August he said he was coming soon!

My OH is still doing these jobs for neighbours and friends.
Just this last Saturday my friend/ next door neighbour called in and one conversation led to him moving her bedroom radiator. He had moved 2 others in the summer.

Oh how I agree. We posted on that neighbourhood recommendation site asking for a decorator to do our stairs. One got straight in touch, came around. gave us a quote which we accepted. He said he could do it in 4-6 weeks time. This was in September. When the 6 weeks had passed, we contacted him and he said 'oh I can't do it now until the second week in December.' So I texted him to say yes that's fine. No reply. Nothing. We don't know if he's coming or not.

Good trades people around me in rural Northumberland are like hen's teeth and everyone eventually hears who are the goodies/baddies. When we moved up here twenty years ago we were targetted by the baddies, we had a few bad and expensive experiences. It seems some of the trades accept every job to keep 'outsiders' out, but then can't fulfil the work for many months. I've been waiting for the gutter man since April, I'm giving up on him now.

I've just purchased a bungalow and the vendor left me a file of the works she had carried out. I'd never heard of the roofer she'd used, but I've now been told he is on the run from his creditors in Spain! Not great news as the guarantee is invalid.

Since my husband died I have managed to find a few reliable and trustworthy trades people I trust, I feel very lucky. Unfortunately my roofer is retiring next April, he's fixed the roof and I've now asked him to come and replace the gutters which are brittle white plastic and at the end of their life.

I hate having to deal with tradesmen. Just when you think you have found someone reliable who can do a half decent job it turns out it wasn’t even half decent and getting them back is impossible. I’ve tried the older tradesmen route and both times ended up with men who treated it as a place to escape doing what they know and enjoy but taking over the garage as if they are at home. In both cases I ended up with an image of their better half enjoying them getting out and earning money too.

I feel stupid for going off the deep end. We rang him again and he still didn’t answer, so DH got in touch with someone who has said he will come next week. Now where have we heard that before? Thank you for your replies.

I found an excellent plumber on Nextdoor. Reccomended him to a friend, who was delighted with him

I recently had a new gas boiler installed - at the appointed hour of 07.30 my buzzer rang and I breathed a sigh of relief.

I just knew that someone who turns up dead on time is going to do a good job, and he did!

Commiserations to Greyduster - I hope you get sorted soon.

Greyduster

... ours is similarly unreliable. He doesn't communicate, and has a habit of just turning up when it's convenient for him. But not for us.

They are in high demand, they know it, and make their own rules.

But it can really mess up your day.

Age UK has a business directory of trusted tradespeople, if there is not one in your area they may have a handyman service or you can use the TrustMark tool on their website.

Luckily, there are two gas fitters and an electrician in this road, so, of course, I rely on them. They're hardly going to let down a neighbour.

I had to laugh when one turned up to service the boiler, though. He'd actually driven his van - from number 20 to number 55! (I can see his house from my window.)

Similar MOnica except ours drink in our local pub, most of the trades are covered, if it’s something out of their sphere, they’ll know someone. As MrJ is a ceramic tiler it’s often done as one favour for another too.
None of which helps Greyduster and I’m stuck to offer ideas as it so depends on where you live! Have you tried TrustMark Grey? Detailson the AgeUK website.

When we moved here we needed a Gas Safe engineer, and had two bad experiences- one did not turn up, one turned up and made notes but did not send a quotation, and the third was pure gold. He also out us in touch with other reliable tradesmen. Sadly he died far too young, but his business partner has continued to be as good. Yes, sometimes he has an emergency which takes priority, or a job overruns so he lets us know he is going to be late. But such people are rare.

We use local people and find them very honest and reliable. So much of their work comes from recommendations. The old country ways and values are alive and kicking round here .

We use workmen who as far as possible live in the village and who we have used regularly over 25 years. There has been the occasional mishap, but generally when you are on first name terms with people and see them in the Co-op regularly, they are reliable.

The problem with older semi retired plumbers and electricians is that their qualifications get out of date, it costs a great deal to get them updated, not to mention insurance and transport.