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She doesn't think about us.

(34 Posts)
Hithere Fri 24-Dec-21 11:06:06

Why do you consider her a friend?

HowVeryDareYou Fri 24-Dec-21 10:56:06

I cannot stand people who are late all the time. It's rude and shows a real lack of consideration for others. I would have told her off.

Hetty58 Fri 24-Dec-21 10:46:24

Being late (when she could have just cut the phone call short) is very annoying. Arriving with potential Covid is unforgiveable. It's time to get rid!

JaneJudge Fri 24-Dec-21 10:26:05

she sounds awful sad

maddyone Fri 24-Dec-21 10:23:28

I’d have made my excuses and left.

DiscoDancer1975 Fri 24-Dec-21 10:15:35

And she’s a friend you say ?.

Mapleleaf Fri 24-Dec-21 10:15:33

My goodness, I think I’d be questioning just what kind of “friend” she is, especially after she has knowingly been in close contact with someone who has covid and then meeting you afterwards. Unbelievable behaviour on her part, I think. The keeping you waiting was bad enough, but then risking passing on covid to you and your other friend tops it all.

Redhead56 Fri 24-Dec-21 10:14:26

The friend sounds selfish and full of her own importance I would give her a wide berth.

kircubbin2000 Fri 24-Dec-21 10:07:27

Often walk with 2 friends. Yesterday I got a message that one wanted to meet for coffee and walk at 9.00 which is a bit early for us. I made a point of getting up, showered and ready at 9.00 a d met my other friend. We stood for 15 minutes under an awning in the rain when eventually she arrived. I asked what had kept her and she said her sister had phoned.
My other friend was so annoyed she went home and when I said we had been waiting as we didn't want to go inside the cafe she didn't apologise and then told me the friend she was with yesterday has covid!
She is always late but this time I am annoyed she has had no consideration for us.