AIBU? Provocative sweatshirt.

ElaineI

luluaugust

I glanced very quickly at the message and thought it was Boris Johnson!!!

? me too!

We must have led very sheltered lives.

No, I wasn't being disingenuous Vintagejazz
It wasn't my immediate thought and had to be explained to me!

Vetnry

Good on you GG13 - pitching up for an important viva exam dressed inappropriately is a real No No - it might affect my marking ( Well, just a little bit ). Apart from anything else it’s plain bad manners. I hope your comment ruined the cheeky little sod’s day, and gave him a few weeks of serious insomnia.
( And what the hell were his parents thinking? )

I have absolutely no idea what you are referring to?

I think you have me mixed up with another poster ?

Shocking and horrible, I would hate to see anyone, young or old, wearing this ??

luluaugust

I glanced very quickly at the message and thought it was Boris Johnson!!!

? me too!

It actually says, ‘Salty but oh so sweet’….

The disingenuous posts on here are making me laugh on a day that's been pretty sad.

Good on you GG13 - pitching up for an important viva exam dressed inappropriately is a real No No - it might affect my marking ( Well, just a little bit ). Apart from anything else it’s plain bad manners. I hope your comment ruined the cheeky little sod’s day, and gave him a few weeks of serious insomnia.
( And what the hell were his parents thinking? )

Anyone who can't see exactly what this bar intended is either very naive or being deliberately obtuse. It's no different from FCUK - you could argue that it simply stands for French Connection UK, but we all know what was intended by it. And the vast majority know exactly what was intended by this sweatshirt too.

Looks like a lobster to me, the picture in the circle is surf.

Dress it up as you will to make sense of it - lobster? I don't think so, never considered a lobster salty - I can't see it as anything but a double entendre given the wording on the back. Pardon the pun, but in very poor taste.

Think it's rather inappropriate, if the child is young enough not to understand the reference, should be stopped by its parent. Otherwise, if she looks quite young, possibly underage, then the parent is either irresponsible, out of touch with reality, or stupid and should have given their child better guidance. Unlike Fat Willy, which can be seen as a mildly amusing reference to make anatomy, the t-shirt the BJ logo suggests the child is advertising willingness to perform sexual acts on males. Those reading the message are not likely to know it's simply advertising a clothes brand and a bar.

trisher

Well I've looked at it. Don't think it was meant to mean what the OP said. I have tried to see what the image in the circle was. I think it's a lobster which some might describe as salty but sweet.

I thought it looked like a wave. One of them is carrying a body board.

BJs is also a firm selling snack foods - some sweet and salty.

Well I've looked at it. Don't think it was meant to mean what the OP said. I have tried to see what the image in the circle was. I think it's a lobster which some might describe as salty but sweet.

Oh please...

Been there many times and never thought of that connection, family beachside cafe owned by Bex and J. Great place and very popular. Perhaps poster making links that don’t exist!!!

Aren’t

JdotJ

Common trash

Are you sweetness and light

My dear mum had a Fat Willy's sweatshirt. My sister bought it for her.

I agree about inappropriate slogans for kids, though. Not good.

Jane MissAdventure ??

I think men most probably like them more Jacky <shrugs>

Men like Bjs, too.

Take a look at the picture at the top of the thread, a man is wearing the offending sweat shirt too, so whilst the innuendo is clear, it’s not just women and girls.

Hithere

So much judging, as usual, none of anybody's business

There is a wholesale supermarket in the US called BJ's, kids with their name starting with B + Junior may get shortened to BJ, Bon Jovi (the group)....

I think it shows more where some posters' minds are and how closed to other possibilities

I was in an event with lots of kids and a young adult was wearing a tshirt referencing a porn website - questionable? Yes! Worth clutching my pearls? Not at all

Oh please. It's obvious what the slogans t he back and front, taken together, were meant to imply.

And yes, adults are right to be shocked at a very young teenager being allowed to wear such a t shirt.

Calling it 'clutching pearls' to try and discredit those adults or make them sound ridiculous is rather a tired tactic.

The garments were advertising an establishment known as BJ’s but relying on double entendre.

I despair of standards today!
BJ's is clearly a possessive, referring to something belonging to someone, or something, called BJ. Blow Jobs is a plural and would therefore be abbreviated to BJs.
And I would be the kind of parent to allow my daughter to wear such a t-shirt to catch out the linguistically challenged!
Oh, and anyone who thinks that any 13 year-olds of today don't know what a BJ is, is sadly deluding themselves.