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Hacked off that I’m paying!!

(28 Posts)
tanith Tue 12-Apr-22 10:23:21

I’d tell her you only agreed as it was freebie and to keep your pal company, you’ll give it a miss thanks all the same.

biglouis Tue 12-Apr-22 10:22:04

I would tell good friend exactly what you have here. Make it clear that you thought the offer was a gift and accepted on that basis. No mention was made of your purchasing a ticket. Otherwise the tickets would have been wasted or other friend would have to attend alone. Emphasize that you have a budget (with rising prices) and will already be paying out for transport and any incidentals.

Perhaps good friend would be best advised to sell the tickets elsewhere.

Alternately you could offer to pay a % of the cost or whatever you think is fair.

nandad Tue 12-Apr-22 10:10:19

A friend who recently lost her husband was offered tickets to a show by a good friend of mine. My good friend is going to a funeral, tickets can’t be exchanged, and didn’t offer the tickets to me. The friend asked if I wanted to go with her, she forwarded the email to me and there was no mention of payment and because of the circumstances I agreed to go. Unfortunately the friend looked up the price of the tickets and mentioned this in her reply. Now good friend has come back, knowing it’s me going, and has asked for the full price of the tickets! I was only going to keep the friend company and because I thought the tickets were free. It’s now going to cost me quite a bit when I factor in the train fare.
AIBU to think that good friend shouldn’t be asking for the full cost of the tickets as she would have lost all of the money anyway? She had already booked alternatives.