See, i wasn't 'off' as standard..I was off checking on lunch, as still doing 'mumsy' things as well! And later I'm doing a 'gran' thing by knitting! (And you don't have to paste/re-quote all I've already said, as thats just plain boring & repetitive..?No i weren't 'bullying'-i pointed out, more or less- why would NON grans,(i.e women) or NON grandads(i.e men) even want to be on a forum named 'Gransnet'? If they were not one?- the name itself suggests you ARE a gran OR a grandad- does it not??I realise some of us are mums& dads, as it stands to reason you are first, so you can then become a gran or grandad- (a bit like the caterpillar evolves to a butterfly) but as i said further down- i meant the younger mumsnet flitterers who are NOT anywhere near old enough to be any type of gran.(or grandad) not even remotely.The ones who just want us to agree with them wanting to get things their own way. And want us 'oldies' to take their side in a family stand off.(You know the ones)! Then they seem to stay on here and disagree with all our opinions.And its not on.?