Although no-one died we have, like so many others, had a terrible 3+ years. Both our AC's live in the South of England and were seriously ill. One had to go private to get a diagnosis and treatment of thyroid deficiency despite having worked for the NHS herself for over 20 years and had symptoms for 8 of those . The other was so seriously ill and could get no effective treatment for a serious family illness had to leave job, house and teenage son to move back to Scotland to get effective treatment and support. My sister and her husband, a senior front-line NHS medic had to return to work from retirement to set up the Covid response, had Covid several times this year and then DH was seriously ill with it. The teenage DGS attempted suicide twice having found himself with no qualifications because his parents and stepfather were all seriously ill necessitating a school move during his GCSE,s and then a move to Scotland. All this has been going on since mid 2019 and these are just the edited highlights the actual experiences have been truly horrific. I have been overwhelmed with worry and become a recluse trying to cope with it all. I have not wanted to trouble my many close friends with it all as they may well have their own problems. Things seem to be improving a bit for my family now apart from the threat of war, the cost of living crisis and Climate Change..... I would be devastated if I was dispensed with by friends I've not been able to see. as a result of not being able to be as sociable as I had been previously.... Some know some of it but none know all of it just as I am probably in the dark about any difficulties they may have had... I think we all need to be kind to each other in these troubled times....