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rejoining the outside world

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M0nica Mon 14-Aug-23 11:00:05

As well as talking to your GP, I suggest you seek counselling to hep you with this problem.

Casdon Mon 14-Aug-23 10:33:46

This could be an option for you to build up your confidence jjojo27. I know somebody who has benefitted tremendously from the Welsh equivalent, when he became fearful of leaving his house after Covid. Good luck, I’m sure you will be able to find the right solution for you.
www.ageuk.org.uk/herefordshireandworcestershire/activities-and-events/walking-friends/
I believe it does operate right across the UK, this is just one example.

Luckygirl3 Mon 14-Aug-23 10:32:58

Have you spoken to your GP? They might be able to help you assess your degree of risk.

jojo27 Mon 14-Aug-23 10:27:45

I should be extremely grateful for some advice. Because I have a number of underlying health problems, including a weakened immune system, I spent most winters catching one bug after another. Consequently, about four years ago, I decided not to go out during the period October to May to prevent this from happening yet again. Just as I was ready to rejoin the world, Covid and lockdown arrived. I was sent a 'you are one of the vulnerable ones' letter and became afraid to leave home. Other than a couple of hospital appointments, I have not left my house since. I only allow maintenance people etc into my house if they wear masks. My family come to see me every now and again but, as you would expect, are sick of having to talk to me either through the window or in the garden.
I desperately want to rejoin the world but, by now, am terrified. I long to visit my family, take taxis (I had to give up driving because of glaucoma) ride on trains and buses and go shopping on my mobility scooter. Your advice is so helpful.
That is the reason why I am turning to you to ask, what do you wonderful people do to attempt to lead ordinary lives whilst trying to stay safe?