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Germanshepherdsmum Sat 09-Dec-23 16:55:35

I’m fortunate to receive newsy but not boasty updates. One can mention a nice holiday or whatever without waxing lyrical - always remember the circumstances of the ‘audience’.

MrsKen33 Sat 09-Dec-23 16:53:48

We had ‘round robin’ once, all about where they had been, who they had met, how much they had spent etc etc etc. At the end the information that they had bought a holiday home in Cornwall. Plus a price list. DH tore it up.

Joseann Sat 09-Dec-23 16:50:34

Aveline

That's not necessarily true annsixty. Everyone has ups and downs but why write about the downs? I alway think people who perceive others as lying or boasting might have a bit of a chip on their shoulders...

Or are jealous?

Aveline Sat 09-Dec-23 16:48:52

That's not necessarily true annsixty. Everyone has ups and downs but why write about the downs? I alway think people who perceive others as lying or boasting might have a bit of a chip on their shoulders...

annsixty Sat 09-Dec-23 16:45:28

I have sympathy with the OP.
I only believe a % of what I used to read in such letters.
It is boasting at best and exaggerating or fibbing at worst.
Most people have some angst in their lives during a year sad to say but the letter writers seem to go year after year without any at all.

Judy54 Sat 09-Dec-23 16:45:23

I agree they are just talking about their lives and activities. We can't all have such exciting lives. Just be happy for them that they are enjoying what they are doing.

Joseann Sat 09-Dec-23 16:26:15

I agree with Aveline, it sounds like a nice 12 months for those people. It is better than a moany newsletter about the husband crashing the car, the boiler blowing up, the DGS being excluded from school, the state of the economy etc. Even though those things might have happened to them too.
Live and let live!

Theexwife Sat 09-Dec-23 16:21:35

If that is what they have been doing then it makes sense to include it in their letter, what should they put instead?

Aveline Sat 09-Dec-23 16:08:12

Maybe it it is just what they've been doing. It's their real lives. Why write about dreary times?

Quizzer Sat 09-Dec-23 15:48:35

I am quite happy to receive Christmas newsletters from friends and relatives that we rarely see, with genuine news.
However there is one type of letter that really makes me sick! We know one couple whose letter is all about the wonderful places they have been, the wonderful hotels they have stayed in and amazing restaurants they have eaten in, mentioning celebrities who were there. They even wax lyrical about the delightful place they live - a new town well known for its intrinsic lack of beauty. They go on to list their golfing successes on the most 'iconic' courses. Even the venue for a friend's son's wedding in Italy was so delightful that they felt they had to extend their trip. Are these people really so self satisfied that they have to tell everybody about their amazing life?