MissInterpreted
Pammie1
fancythat
If a non disabled person takes up a space that a disabled person needs, I think that is the business of the general public, personally.
The problem with that is that there are a lot of hidden disabilities. If someone is displaying a valid blue badge, it’s no-one else’s business why they have one.
Yes, totally agree with this. My friend's daughter has a blue badge - to look at her, you'd never know there was anything wrong with her, but she has several disabilities including being registered as legally blind. My friend has had run-ins with several people querying her use of a blue badge. So many judgemental people around.
I honestly think some people are just nosy. I pulled into a disabled space at our local supermarket not so long ago and while I was retrieving the badge from my handbag, a very bad tempered lady banged on the window demanding to know why I was parked there. I showed her the badge and she demanded to know what my disability was - trotted out the old chestnut ‘you don’t look very disabled’ - which I don’t behind the wheel. I told her it was none of her business and that all she needed to know was that the badge was valid and belonged to me. She stood and harangued me until she saw the wheelchair being lowered from the top box on the roof of the car, and made a quick, red faced exit afterwards !!
I’ve queried people’s use of disabled spaces several times in the absence of a badge, but if one is being displayed, in my opinion, it’s totally unacceptable to challenge the reason - that’s between the badge holder and the issuing authority. There are so many hidden disabilities these days that it’s easy to cause offence or distress.