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To Think That Open Plan Living Is Just a Fashion of The Moment

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OldHag Mon 11-Mar-24 22:28:01

I originally posted this on Mumsnet, but am getting the vibe that it depends on your time of life, so wonder what you Grans think about it.

Me and my DH have recently moved house, and the plan for the place we chose was to integrate the kitchen, dining room, and living room. However, now that we've settled in, and begun getting prices for the work, I'm getting a bit worried that all this open plan living, is just a bit of a fad that will go out of fashion in a few more years, and then we'll all want all the walls that we knocked down put up again.

Thoughts please people.

Joan72 Thu 14-Mar-24 17:52:02

Another vote firmly against open plan, for all the aforementioned reasons. I looked for a long time to find a flat with a separate kitchen. All the new builds seem to be open plan, which is cheaper to build. Fewer walls mean fewer cupboards, if that’s of importance. My son and his family, with 3 children under 7, have open plan and there is nowhere to escape the noise or the cooking smells.

Gundy Thu 14-Mar-24 17:39:51

No extra walls! Only a few for bedrooms, privacy and storage, etc.

My open plan living is going on 24 yrs. I love it❣️ Some days I feel like I’m cooking in the living room and watching TV in the kitchen 😆, and we eat in the middle. Family and friends are always together for occasions.

I happen to have my vaulted ceiling living space with a second story loft so it is very open, airy, light and bright from the all the windows and breezes. Closed up rooms are stuffy!

This is NOT a trend - it’s here to stay. Enjoy your new home. (Easier to clean too!)

Saggi Thu 14-Mar-24 17:06:11

Never had or will have open plan living .

sandelf Thu 14-Mar-24 16:23:17

We have new house - sold as K/D/L big l shape and a 'dining' room. We use the dining room as an office for two (just about), and divide the K/D from lounge with interior bifolds. Flexible - I can have radio or read while F1 plays in lounge, no cooking pong on furnishings etc.

Foxyferret Thu 14-Mar-24 16:12:45

Separate rooms for me. We use our dining room every evening. We have a tv in there so we can watch the news or anything else that takes our fancy. I don’t want to look at the dirty dishes while I’m eating and I don’t want cooking smells in my lounge. I dislike people talking to me while I’m cooking or baking. I always make mistakes if they do or forget what time I put something in the oven. I know it’s just me but I have to give it all my concentration with no distractions.

Spencer2009 Thu 14-Mar-24 15:33:45

We opened our kitchen/dining area up to the living room- it looks spacious and light, will say it’s noisier, especially when working in the kitchen, but it works for us (retired couple)

Doodledog Thu 14-Mar-24 14:17:29

SporeRB

I sometimes wonder why the houses here in the UK do not have a laundry room. In the Far East, the flats have a service bay with a drying clothes rack with pulleys to hang your clothes.

Modern houses definitely do, but I older houses were built on the assumption that clothes would be hung out to dry, either literally outside or on a maiden above a bath or in an outhouse. More recently-built houses have laundry rooms and utility rooms/areas as washing machines/driers became standard.

MrsAF Thu 14-Mar-24 14:14:31

I have recently downsized & bought open plan bungalow. It would be a really poky place without it & I love the light & space for guests. But…it is COLD. It’s expensive to heat open plan so we’ve turned a bedroom into a snug. This works well. Our bungalow could not be returned to its original state without huge expense so think carefully about how you will use & heat the space. Log burner?

grandtanteJE65 Thu 14-Mar-24 14:06:36

We have a big kitchen-diner with a good extractor fan. Washing-machine, dryer and freezer in a separate room - the old wash-kitchen.

The rest of the ground floor consists of two front rooms (sitting-rooms) bathroom, behind the utility room, storeroom and workshop.

Upstairs, bedroom, study and small passage-room with toilet and handwash basin off it.

If by open plan you mean all rooms knocked into one, this would not suit me either.

I see no reason for a dining-room as no-one here gives dinner parties any more.

rocketstop Thu 14-Mar-24 13:32:53

we had open plan at our last house, it takes some getting used to, and are you prepared to live with the cooking smells in your front room ? Now I like to close the kitchen door, and also if you have visitors when you're just finishing a meal, they have to sit there while you eat and then amongst your dirty dishes unlkess you deal with them straight away, whers in a normal plan house you can take visitors into the lounge area and all the business end, cooking etc is behind closed doors ! Just something to be aware of .

Germanshepherdsmum Thu 14-Mar-24 13:14:05

I have a laundry room as well as a utility room.

SporeRB Thu 14-Mar-24 13:08:36

I sometimes wonder why the houses here in the UK do not have a laundry room. In the Far East, the flats have a service bay with a drying clothes rack with pulleys to hang your clothes.

SueDoku Thu 14-Mar-24 13:06:08

Chestnut

Don't knock the walls down OldHag!! Open plan definitely is a fad and a horrible one. Who wants strong smelling fish or fatty foods cooking in the living room, or hear the dishwasher turning or the washing machine spinning. You will also end up with your sofa smelling of roast dinner which you then have to sit on. Then there's the aroma of boiling vegetables which puts a lot of moisture into the air, again this will travel to your soft furnishings and make them smelly. You also have the dirty dishes staring at you while you're trying to relax in the living room. I can think of countless reasons why this is a bad idea.

I prefer the kitchen/utility area to be completely separate if possible. It can be joined to the dining area if necessary, just not to the living room. No way.

I couldn't agree with this more..! Trying to hear the TV over the noise of the dishwasher or washing machine is my idea of hell - as is sitting on a sofa looking at a sink full of washing up, or in a room that smells of food cooking when I want to relax...! Yuk..!!! 😱

SporeRB Thu 14-Mar-24 13:05:22

I love an open plan kitchen diner with separate living room.

Unfortunately, we have a very thick chimney between our kitchen and dining room so have left the two rooms separate. We do not eat in the dining room but have a computer in the alcove of the dining room so at least the dining room is still being used.

I am currently updating our 1960s house and cannot make up my mind whether to future proof our existing house or move into a bungalow nearby in the future.

Would love to live nearer my daughter but there is very few bungalows in the village she lives or in the town next to her village.

lizzypopbottle Thu 14-Mar-24 12:57:59

Open plan must be very expensive to heat, I should think...

Paperbackwriter Thu 14-Mar-24 12:51:01

On a slight tangent here, the one fad I can't stand is those kitchen islands with high-up chairs at them. I mean, why? Usually in photos of those kitchens there is also a table just a couple of feet away. Islands now seem to be squeezed into the tiniest of kitchens. Give me a nice big table any day.

Unigran4 Thu 14-Mar-24 12:44:04

I think Mumsnet generation, or at least those with younger children, prefer open plan so they can keep an eye on the little ones whilst they cook, wash, clean. As we get older, we no longer need that facility and enjoy cosier spaces. I'd keep your walls up, OP.

Nannapat1 Thu 14-Mar-24 12:39:02

I think that it is the current trend: every TV programme on house selling ir renovation seems to feature homes that have been opened up fir open plan living. It works best IMO, when you have a big enough house to have the open plan area plus a separate living room and dining room.
BTW, we bought our house 25 years ago because we wanted lots of rooms to give private space to us and each of our 3 children then aged 9-16.

MeowWow Thu 14-Mar-24 12:33:14

We have open plan - kitchen, dining and lounge. It looks very spacious but that, to me, is the only plus. We have to turn the TV volume up when boiling the kettle. We only do the washing in the morning and the dishwasher goes on when we go to bed. When cooking food the smell permeates throughout the house. If we could, we’d move but unfortunately that’s not possible. I burn a lot of candles to get rid of the cooking smells. In my opinion, you can’t beat separate kitchen/dining/lounge.

11unicorn Thu 14-Mar-24 12:27:48

I was very sceptic about open plan living but now that I've tried it, I will not go back (at least not by free will)!

I love the open space, the way that I can see what the cats are up to at all times, continue my conversation with DH while pottering in the kitchen. The feel of the open space is just marvelous and I never knew it could lift my spirits that much.
We rented for 6 month and that house had not only open space but also for the living room area high ceilings to the second floor. If I could afford it, I would go that far and have that too. It felt nearly like being outside having so much space and the roof being so far too. I had been worried about cleaning and not reaching up there first but found that I started to not care at all if there might be an insect on the ceiling, or a cobweb. I am not claustrophopic but the open space does give you such a lift, I wouldn't have believed it if I had not been given the chance to experience it.

If any of us wanted some "peace" he had his office and I had my craft room we could retreat to.

Alas when buying we didn't have the funds for the scale that house had. We have open space now but sadly not a high ceiling.
We had the opportunity of this experience due to DH being transferred to the USA. Part of me dreads going back to Europe as we most likely will not have the funds to transform a property in that way. But I certainly going to enjoy what I have now and will worry about what I get later.

Dinahmo Thu 14-Mar-24 12:27:28

PS we have a separate building which has a number of different uses and includes space for a washing machine and also has one of those hanging dryers. The dishwasher goes on at night after we've gone to bed.

Dinahmo Thu 14-Mar-24 12:19:03

We have an open plan house. It's all on one level with 3 bedrooms, each with a bath or shower room on the north side. The largest bedroom has a large walk in wardrobe in the middle with the bed on one side and our desks and library on the other. Plenty of room to escape. We used to have an old cottage in Suffolk and when this house was planned I calculated the total area of the cottage and the area of this house isn't much bigger. There was a lot of unlivable space in the cottage.

The living room is on the south side, with large sliding doors. There is a short dividing wall that partially separates the kitchen bit from the sitting bit. Each area is about the size of the rooms in a normal house but it seems to be much larger. The sitting area is in the middle pf the room and you cannot see into the kitchen area at all. You can see the island which has a book case at the end facing the sitting area.

When we have people here they can move around freely without being stuck in one room.

I would find it very difficult to move back to a house with separate rooms.

Mollygo Thu 14-Mar-24 12:07:50

I like separate spaces, though we can eat in our kitchen if we choose.
I agree about heating huge spaces, but it was mainly the need for separate rooms for children, then grandchildren practising musical instruments and a room where I could leave the sewing machine and ironing board up without making the whole house look untidy.
Hope you find something that suits you.

nj30 Thu 14-Mar-24 12:07:02

I have an open plan kitchen, dining room and sitting room and love it. Like many have said though, much depends on your own taste and circumstances. I can be in the kitchen and talking to others at the same time, or looking at something on TV so do not feel closed off.

Trottoir Thu 14-Mar-24 12:04:53

My mother lived in a sheltered scheme where many residents had incorporated their kitchen into the lounge. I thought she should do the same but she was adamant that she wanted a separate kitchen. She died last year but the warden confirmed that many prospective purchasers prefer to keep the rooms separate.