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Car stereos blaring out!

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Sago Thu 04-Apr-24 09:53:24

Yesterday morning we were woken by a car stereo at full volume, it was 7.30, the car reversed into a space then the occupant spent a few minutes fiddling on her phone and eventually turned off the engine.
To my surprise she was a suited and booted woman of around 50.

This morning a car has just pulled away with the stereo on full.

Why do people do it?

AIBU or should car sound systems have a legal limit?

Aveline Sun 07-Apr-24 12:23:18

Prolonged exposure to loud noise leads to encroaching deafness. Good luck as you age you ones who play your music loudly as you drive.

knspol Sun 07-Apr-24 12:18:59

My only neighbour plays music outdoors in the summer, it's very loud and sounds as if it's the same tune being played over and over again. As she's very nice in many ways I don't like to complain but definitely not ideal on a lovely summer's day.

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 07-Apr-24 12:09:53

I know exactly how loud my car is Elless. Our last house was down a long straight country road, no other houses, where I could safely put my foot down - which is of course when the noise really kicks in. My husband knew when I was approaching home. It’s a standard specification exhaust for my model of car, factory fitted, not an ‘extra’ or a jazzed up modification. So it meets regulations, even when in ‘sports exhaust’ mode. I believe some here think that my car is as noisy when idling or crawling through town as when I can kick down on the open road. It isn’t.

polly123 Sun 07-Apr-24 12:00:45

I can't drive in silence and have to have music. I often play it loudish but am aware of my surroundings when doing so. If I love a particular piece of music I just have to hear it loud but with the windows closed!

icanhandthemback Sun 07-Apr-24 11:54:25

Oh dear, I love the music on loud when I am driving. I only turn it down when I have somebody else in the car with me. My husband winces whenever he starts my car because he is hit with a wall of sound and I try to remember to turn it down after I have been driving but I am hopeless!

SillyNanny321 Sun 07-Apr-24 11:52:35

When I could drive I would have my Heavy Rock music very loud but kept the windows closed. My DS does the same when we are in his car as we both like the same music it is ok for us but my DDiL hates her music loud so we suffer when in her car! It is really each to their own isnt it! Just so long as we do not open the windows & share our music with the world!

Philippa111 Sun 07-Apr-24 11:51:37

I once had that late at night. Midnight. I went out into the street in my dressing gown and asked very politely if they could turn it down a bit. It was a young guy with a girl beside him. They were obviously focusing on each other. They were very polite and turned it down. I think it was the dressing gowned old lady that did the trick. Go out in your dressing gown and ask.

HeavenLeigh Sun 07-Apr-24 11:49:46

I don’t think it’s anything to do with trying to be young. We just love music and from the sixties right through to present

mabon1 Sun 07-Apr-24 11:48:31

What's wrong with a woman aged 50 liking music, however if it's blaring she should be more thoughtful.

HeavenLeigh Sun 07-Apr-24 11:44:27

We always have our music loud when we go out and generally singing too not at 730 though, recycled teenagers and loving it

RosiesMaw Sun 07-Apr-24 11:33:16

PS you don’t get drug dealers, footballers or WAGS around where I live!

RosiesMaw Sun 07-Apr-24 11:32:31

vegansrock

Whenever we see a Porsche round here it’s usually a drug dealer or footballer - usually young and blingy. So it’s wrong to say only the oldies have enough money to drive one. One of my neighbours has an electric one fortunately not noisy.

I think only the silver surfers among us can afford to insure one!

Callistemon21 Sun 07-Apr-24 11:19:14

Now, would I rather hear something loud or an electric vehicle which moves silently?

Could be silent but deadly 🤔

Callistemon21 Sun 07-Apr-24 11:17:54

Kalu

The thud, thud of heavy base from some cars is so intrusive, especially when parked near our house. How do they hear sirens or horns?

Also, so many tradesmen when working outdoors with this, not what I would call music, even worse……please do share your music, I hate it!

It's the thud, thud, thud, isn't it, as they drive through town or stop at traffic lights, stuck in a traffic jam, with windows wide open, "music" blaring

"Look at me, I'm someone special".
No you're not 😂

M0nica Sun 07-Apr-24 11:11:21

The very respectable middle-aged couple next to us - two professional incomes, three school aged children have an electriclly powered Porsche.

I find the comments on Porsche drivers on this thread deliberately seemed to be aimed at one regular member of GN and I consider it to be offensive and also indicative of a sort of envious resentment of anyone who might have a bigger income than them. Not a pretty sight.

Elless Sun 07-Apr-24 11:01:18

vegansrock

Whenever we see a Porsche round here it’s usually a drug dealer or footballer - usually young and blingy. So it’s wrong to say only the oldies have enough money to drive one. One of my neighbours has an electric one fortunately not noisy.

😂😂
My neighbour has one as a last ditch attempt at trying to look young 🤣.
GSM as I stated ‘if it exceeds 72 db’ it will fail an MOT obviously yours isn’t as loud as you think it is but just because it hasn’t failed doesn’t mean it shouldn’t have. We all know the MOT rules are not strictly adhered to in every case.

Dogmum2 Sun 07-Apr-24 10:56:28

Oh dear, i/we are culprits. Admittedly we don't sit outside our home with it blaring, but Yes, i/we do like to occasionally turn up the volume.

We have eclectic tastes, so for example i may be blaring a bit of east coast rap, 80's pop, late 70/80's punk/ska, classical or ramping up Runrig as we sail past the Welcome to Scotland sign.

The only thing I do dislike are the back firing exhausts, because they freak out my dog.

We can't turn it up at home, due to us 'living over the shop' so being in the Campervan is when we can let lose and enjoy the music. Love a roadtrip with our favourite music.

I have no wish to be 'down wiv the kids man' as i am now in my 50's and that would be ridiculous. However hip hop/rap is a genre i still enjoy, having enjoyed it since my younger days and i am not going to stop listening to it now.

PS. No, we would never have it blaring on a campsite

vegansrock Sun 07-Apr-24 10:48:30

Whenever we see a Porsche round here it’s usually a drug dealer or footballer - usually young and blingy. So it’s wrong to say only the oldies have enough money to drive one. One of my neighbours has an electric one fortunately not noisy.

Callistemon21 Sun 07-Apr-24 10:41:27

DH had a blue Imp, when we started going out

I learnt to drive in a blue Hillman Imp, Marydoll.
They were very small cars and my driving instructor was a very large man and must have been 6' 4"!
He used a walking stick and used to prod my foot with it if I didn't press the clutch down far enough. He also said I'd never pass first time which made me determined to prove him wrong (and I did!).

Germanshepherdsmum Sun 07-Apr-24 10:40:18

Mine has never yet failed its MOT. The cars likely to fall foul of the regulations are those whose exhaust has been tampered with by the ‘boy racer’ types.

Elless Sun 07-Apr-24 10:36:25

Nobody seems to have mentioned the FACT that driving with music blaring out is illegal and they can be issued with a Section 59 Notice for alarm, distress or ANNOYANCE to members of the public.
Also if an exhaust is too loud under Motor Cars Excessive Noise Regulations 2016 (eu regulation 2014/540) which sets the noise level at 72db this would be an MOT failure and therefore should not be on the road.

MissAdventure Sun 07-Apr-24 10:32:06

grin

Callistemon21 Sun 07-Apr-24 10:32:02

MissAdventure

Some people find driving, playing their music loudly, cathartic. smile

We're always being told that our mental health is important.

But so is everyone's including those who like peace and quiet.

I remember when youths used to gather outside a local supermarket at night. The supermarket then started playing classical music, that soon shifted them!

Callistemon21 Sun 07-Apr-24 10:29:02

Maggiemaybe

^To me those people are saying “look at me, I think I’m special”^

Got it in one, Theexwife.

DH likes his music on when he drives, and as he’s hard of hearing it has to be pretty loud grin. But he has the common courtesy to keep the windows shut and wait till he’s on the open road before he switches on.

Personally, I prefer a good audiobook.

To me those people are saying “look at me, I think I’m special”
Got it in one, Theexwife

Attention-seekers!

Just as a vehicle can be pulled over if the police deem tinted windows to be too dark
We bought a car with tinted rear windows mae13 and a neighbour remarked "I see you've bought a drug dealers's car!"
It was a standard Toyota 😁

MissAdventure Sun 07-Apr-24 10:26:31

Some people find driving, playing their music loudly, cathartic. smile

We're always being told that our mental health is important.