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Being quizzed by chemist's assistant in Boots.

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Netherbyg84 Wed 17-Apr-24 15:33:12

We are all being encouraged to take advice from a pharmacist if at all possible. When I tried to do this today, however, I didn't expect to be asked about my health problem by a person behind the counter, writing down details such as "and how long have you had this condition" before permission granted for me to speak to a pharmacist, never mind a G.P.
I'm afraid I had to apologise for being rude as I had reached the end of my tether, stress wise.

maddyone Thu 18-Apr-24 12:18:50

I feel upset myself by unkind comments about GermanShepherdsMum.
She is a knowledgable poster who has never been either unkind or rude to another poster to my knowledge.
Please leave her alone.

grandtanteJE65 Thu 18-Apr-24 11:44:15

Are we not forgetting here that to a certain extent one has always been asked faintly embarrassing questions at the chemist's?

I have personally need on different occasions to ask for or collect prescribed vaginal suppositories, ointment for haemarroids, pills to stop violent tummy upsets and so on and so forth.

It would be a good idea if the shop was provided with a line painted on the floor, like the ones in banks and post offices, instructing people to wait a suitable distance away from the person being served.

And we need to remember that it is bad manners to appear to be, or actually be listening to others' conversations.

Dickens Thu 18-Apr-24 11:41:34

Redhead56

Yes that is correct my DH does not wish for people to know his personal business. He is quiet compared to me I would have pulled the assistant up for not being discreet.

Can you imagine if someone from the 'higher echelons' of society waiting for their prescription - an MP, for example - that the the assistant would shout out, Mr Sunak, what flavour of Fybogel would your wife prefer?

I doubt they'd do that. We should be afforded the same level of respect - however insignificant others think our medical problem.

smile

Theexwife Thu 18-Apr-24 11:36:04

Curtaintwitcher

Illegal immigrants use pharmacists when they need medicine but aren't registered with a doctor, so it is necessary to ask personal questions. However, as others have said, you are entitled to privacy.

There is no such thing as an illegal imigrant and how could you possibly know a persons immigration status.

Luckygirl3 Thu 18-Apr-24 11:13:03

It is so worrying. Getting to see an actual qualified doctor is becoming near-on impossible unless you pay.

This is not to denigrate the other health professionals whose roles are very important. But we cannot fond ourselves in a situation where we cannot access a proper medically qualified person. What I have found is that it saves nothing in money or time - I have been sent to a physio, who then passed me on to a doctor; to a nurse, who then passed me on to a doctor; to a PA (on the phone) who prescribed wrongly and I finished up having to go to the doctor.

This crazy division of roles goes on and on. Instead of taking bloods while chatting to a patient, the GP refers you for bloods with a nurse, who cannot be accessed for a fortnight or more - it is madness. And more costly ... these nurses are booked up for weeks because of all these blood-letting appointments, so using up unnecessary paid time for something that could have been done on the spot during the original consultation.

Callistemon21 Thu 18-Apr-24 10:45:49

Oh, and the first appointment with a 'Consultant Orthopaedic Surgeon' was with a nurse!

Callistemon21 Thu 18-Apr-24 10:44:59

Luckygirl3

*Whilst I have great respect for pharmacists - this 'scheme' is a sticking-plaster fix for a broken NHS* - precisely.

I believe pharmacists are highly trained and if you are seen in their consulting room they have a computer in front of them that they pull up your medical history on the screen so have all that is needed of your history and problems .... do we actually want non-medically qualified people in shops to be able to access our medical record? Pharmacists have their own important role - one was very helpful to me in hospital when trying to solve a pain relief problem - he was brilliant at knowing alternative ways to solve my problem. But the medics were guiding the ultimate decisions and that is how it should be.

Hospital Consultants are using pharmacists as part of their team for appointments with patients.

I only found out by accident that the 'Junior Doctors' I thought I spoke to on several occasions were, in fact, pharmacists.

Redhead56 Thu 18-Apr-24 10:05:46

Yes that is correct my DH does not wish for people to know his personal business. He is quiet compared to me I would have pulled the assistant up for not being discreet.

Dickens Thu 18-Apr-24 09:40:24

RosiesMaw

Redhead56

My DH was red faced when the assistant shouted out Mr R what flavour Fibagel do you want all over the shop

For heavens sake, Why?
Fybogel is hardly the same as flavoured condoms, Tena ladies or Anusol suppositories!

For heavens sake, Why?

... because some people are sensitive about the fact they need the stuff and don't want to share that information with random shoppers?

It might not bother you and I don't think I'd be overly upset about it, but can we not allow for the vulnerability of others?

Astitchintime Thu 18-Apr-24 09:40:08

V3ra

^The OP should have asked to speak somewhere privately if that is what they wanted.^

I think the onus is on the person on the counter, who needs to ask these questions, to suggest a chat in a private room.
The general public don't know what questions will be asked until it's too late.

Yes V3ra, my point exactly. But why should it be the counter assistants responsibility? Surely, if a customer goes in for advice on a sensitive problem, itchy vagina, piles, discharge from penis, flatulence etc, then it is the customers responsibility to use their own common sense and ask to discuss in private, not over the counter, but then again, that means using common sense grin

Luckygirl3 Thu 18-Apr-24 09:31:46

This is a slippery road. Exactly the same as the use of Physician Associates Just today the BMA have asked for a halt to PAs to reevaluate.

Luckygirl3 Thu 18-Apr-24 09:25:58

Whilst I have great respect for pharmacists - this 'scheme' is a sticking-plaster fix for a broken NHS - precisely.

I believe pharmacists are highly trained and if you are seen in their consulting room they have a computer in front of them that they pull up your medical history on the screen so have all that is needed of your history and problems .... do we actually want non-medically qualified people in shops to be able to access our medical record? Pharmacists have their own important role - one was very helpful to me in hospital when trying to solve a pain relief problem - he was brilliant at knowing alternative ways to solve my problem. But the medics were guiding the ultimate decisions and that is how it should be.

Witzend Thu 18-Apr-24 09:15:31

The only time I did get irritated was when I felt a dose of cystitis coming on, and we were imminently off on holiday to India. I’d had it more than once before and knew the sachets you can buy would head it off.

The pharmacist told me that because of my age (early 60s) it might not be just cystitis and I needed to see see the GP. Well, there wasn’t time! As I (politely) told her.
Plus, I knew very well what it was - and that it was going to ruin my holiday if not caught in time.,

Bought some in the supermarket - where I should have gone in the first place.

I did expect to be questioned when buying strong, codeine-containing painkillers when I had shingles. GP had told me what to get, but didn’t give me a prescription since I could buy them without. They were handed over with no comment.

Sparklefizz Thu 18-Apr-24 09:01:15

They can't wildswan16 ... our poor pharmacist in a small village pharmacy has queues out of the door for prescriptions.

wildswan16 Thu 18-Apr-24 08:59:30

I am just curious as to how the poor pharmacists are supposed to add all these consultations into their already busy day doing a job that requires expert knowledge and concentration.

lixy Thu 18-Apr-24 08:49:36

eazybee

In our small local pharmacy there is a prominent notice informing you that you can ask to speak privately to a member of staff if you wish.
Our problem is that the pharmacist commutes between the four pharmacies he runs, so you have to catch him first.

Snap, and when the pharmacist isn't there the whole shop closes quite often - not so great when all you want is a sticking plaster.

I have found Boots staff discreet in the main, local pharmacy not so much, especially if they don't have the prescribed medication available.

Marydoll Thu 18-Apr-24 08:36:04

nanna8

I’d go to another chemist in future. Writing down someone’s health issues is not on and I am wondering why they would do this. I’d be furious.

Writing down the issues, would surely ensure accuracy when passing the info onto the pharmacist?
I have complicated health issues, even my GPs struggle sometimes!

Pittcity Thu 18-Apr-24 08:34:04

FoghornLeghorn

I once went into Boots to get a prescription filled and suffered the indignity of the counter assistant screeching out ‘Vagifem’ at the top of her voice. Fortunately I’m not easily embarrassed but I did ask her if she’d like a megaphone so that more of the store could hear her.

Assistants must make the pharmacist aware of every sale of items that are marked PO (pharmacy only). We were trained to simply wave the item behind the counter in the pharmacist's view. No shouting needed.
This is done because should anything sold cause the patient any trouble the buck stops with the pharmacist not the assistant who sold the item. It is physically impossible for the one pharmacist who is often working a long day with no break to do all the jobs that they are ultimately responsible for.

eazybee Thu 18-Apr-24 08:33:18

In our small local pharmacy there is a prominent notice informing you that you can ask to speak privately to a member of staff if you wish.
Our problem is that the pharmacist commutes between the four pharmacies he runs, so you have to catch him first.

nanna8 Thu 18-Apr-24 08:29:37

I’d go to another chemist in future. Writing down someone’s health issues is not on and I am wondering why they would do this. I’d be furious.

Marydoll Thu 18-Apr-24 08:26:11

No need for comments about illegal immigrants and GSM.
They add nothing to the thread. 😔

nadateturbe Thu 18-Apr-24 08:25:38

Netherbyg you apologised for being rude. I think being stressed and possibly embarrassed excuses you.
A private room should be offered, not asked for.
I would not like to be questioned by a shop assistant either about personal details whether in private or at a counter. I don't like it at the doctors either. And some ailments are embarrassing enough when talking to the GP.
Sadly, we are being forced to accept these changes and it is difficult for many of us.
Oh for the good old days when we felt we were important and cared for by the NHS.
As for assistants shouting out vagifem, or anything else, not much training there.

GrannyGravy13 Thu 18-Apr-24 08:16:34

Oh dear

I have nothing but respect and praise for our local independent pharmacy and all its staff. They have helped two members of my immediate family in recent weeks, both were extremely poorly and the advice given was 100% accurate according to their GP”s. They also advised me on over the counter sleep aids which were compatible with my numerous medications.

The Boots pharmacists at the local retail park have given much appreciated advice when dispensing prescriptions to me over the years.

I feel for anyone who has face-to-face dealings with the general public, manners, respect and common curtesy appear to be in decline.

Iam64 Thu 18-Apr-24 08:01:33

Pharmacists have a private room. All that’s needed is a request to see the pharmacist privately
They’re highly skilled and have been silently supporting the GP surgeries for years. The increase in their work load isn’t funded and feels like another poorly thought out panic response to problems the govt should have avoided

V3ra Thu 18-Apr-24 07:59:08

The OP should have asked to speak somewhere privately if that is what they wanted.

I think the onus is on the person on the counter, who needs to ask these questions, to suggest a chat in a private room.
The general public don't know what questions will be asked until it's too late.