PamelaJ1 I stopped the constant moves when my father retired from the army. I was 21. Since I married I have lived in, broadly, the same area for over 50 years and I know a lot of people purely superficially.
I belong to several organisations, where I have been a member for 30 years or more and I have friends through that, but they are what I call 'organisation friends'. Once we move on, as we hope to this year, I am not sure that those friendships will turn into personal friendships.
I do have a few good personal friends. My dearest and closest dates from school days and will bcoming to stay for the weekend later this morning, but apart from that, one from university, a couple from from when my children were young, one from work, but, sadly, several of these have died as we move in to old age.
Interestingly, I have recently made two good friends through GN.