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Behaviour at the Beauty Counter

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Redhead56 Tue 18-Jun-24 08:29:13

My sister worked at a Clinique counter in Selfridges London. The assistant should have excused herself from the customer getting free make up and asked what you required. She missed out on a potential sale because of the other customer.

The other customer probably didn’t buy any makeup but asked for samples something lots of customers do. The assistant probably didn’t want to annoy the other customer but should have been more assertive.

denbylover Tue 18-Jun-24 08:27:11

I personally wouldn’t have sought advice from the assistant if it was obvious she was on her own and busy with another customer. I’d probably have gone off browsing, whilst at the same time, feeling tetchy at the counter being short-staffed, and returned later. But hey that’s just me.

PamelaJ1 Tue 18-Jun-24 08:23:39

Of course you weren’t being rude, the customer was.
If you want private, individual attention don’t go for free advice in a store. Pay and go to a salon.

BlueBelle Tue 18-Jun-24 08:02:10

I would have done the same you were nt being rude you should be afforded the same attention as the other spoilt lady I use the term lady loosely

Grandmadinosaur Tue 18-Jun-24 07:58:45

No you are not being unreasonable. I had bad service or non service a couple of years ago but mine was at the Clinique counter a Boots store. I sent in an e mail complaint. I received a lovely reply from the head of that department and saying when I next went in to make myself known and would receive a gift to make up for my experience. He did say it wasn’t how the staff were trained to treat customers ie being ignored. I didn’t go to receive it as I didn’t require anything in recompense it was just to bring attention to what had happened and hopefully for them to act on it which the manager assured me they would.

SuzyQqq Tue 18-Jun-24 07:38:24

I needed a new foundation and wanting to buy a replacement for one I had bought a while before from Este Lauder. I popped into the Mall at Cribbs Causeway near Brisol and headed to John Lewis who I knew were a stockist. This was the main purpose of my visit. On arriving at the counter in store there was only one assistant who looked like she was advising another customer. The customer was sat on one of their stools and having some eye shadows applied . I looked around the counter to see if I could see the foundation and shade I wanted but it didn’t seem to be out and I know they are sometimes kept behind the counter in their stock drawers. No other assistants were around and I hovered a while to see if the other lady’s consultation was coming to an end, but it seemed ongoing , so I moved a little closer and asked the assistant if I could just quickly check whether they had an item in stock . I thought given she was the only one available this would be acceptable and she may be able to point in me in the right direction whilst then carrying on with her customer. However before she could reply the lady seated on the stool said in a loud voice ‘ How rude ! Do not serve her. Carry on attending to me !’ The assistant looked a bit shocked but obviously didn’t know what to do . Neither did I . I hadn’t thought it was too unreasonable in the circumstances. But to avoid further confrontation I just turned and walked away . I went to Boots and bought another brand and then went home. Was I being unreasonable? Please can someone advise on beauty counter decorum and the do’s and don’ts in these situations? Thanks 😊