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Child with dead hedgehog?

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Tuaim Sat 13-Jul-24 08:47:44

A few days ago a dead hedgehog appeared as road kill on our road. Someone moved it to the public lawn opposite and it was duly visited by seagulls, crows and magpies and was then left to rot in a corner. However, on opening my bedroom curtains, I saw a parent and child investigating the dead hedgehog and the parent allowing the child to touch it and investigate it. Am I being unreasonable to think that there are limits to allowing children to explore? My parents would have let me look, explained, but not allowed me to touch. And please don't tell me I should have picked it up before as I am very squeamish and thought nature would take its course.

Tuaim Mon 22-Jul-24 07:44:58

I knew a rather eccentric person once who kept small animal and bird skulls on their 4 x 4 dash board, much to the horror of their rather posh friends to whom they gave lifts.

Deedaa Sun 21-Jul-24 20:45:27

I used to bury dead birds that I found and dig the bones up later. I had read a book that told me how to boil the bodies to get the bones, but my mother wouldn't let me do that in the kitchen!

Carenza123 Mon 15-Jul-24 16:51:12

I saw a baby rabbit dead in a local paddock which had been partially eaten by birds while walking my two dogs. I got a stick and moved it into the longer grass - just feel carcasses are more dignified if moved out of view.

Callistemon213 Sun 14-Jul-24 20:11:57

A badger can't get into our back garden although we've seen them at the front.

The hedgehog was a sad sight.

MayBee70 Sun 14-Jul-24 19:44:35

Badgers kill and eat hedgehogs.

Callistemon213 Sat 13-Jul-24 20:14:15

We found a dead hedgehog in a corner of the garden ☹
Something had eaten it, no DG around to inspect it so DH had to use a shovel to take it to the bin.

David49 Sat 13-Jul-24 20:07:52

My brothers terrier used to kill hedgehogs in the garden and come in the house covered in fleas - not nice at all, none our family has the slightest fascination with dead animals.

Callistemon213 Sat 13-Jul-24 20:02:25

Little girls too.

I remember one who was fascinated by dead insects when she was about four.
Yes, she did go on to study biochemistry.

V3ra Sat 13-Jul-24 19:54:56

Little boys are fascinated by dead things.

Two little boys I childminded were fascinated by a dead rabbit we came across one day. It's eyes had gone and it was crawling with maggots.
I didn't let them touch it but we spent some time inspecting it and discussing it.
I took some photos for their EYFS development folders.
The Ofsted inspector who saw this was impressed, and recorded that "we discussed the circle of life" πŸ™‚

Tuaim Sat 13-Jul-24 19:38:58

What a lot of brilliant responses! Seems to be that the overwhelming outcome is make sure you wash your hands thoroughly after touching anything dodgy. Thank you.

MayBee70 Sat 13-Jul-24 16:08:42

I love hedgehogs but my main worry about them is they tend to be covered in ticks and I’m paranoid about Lyme disease.

petra Sat 13-Jul-24 16:04:45

How lovely to have parents who aren’t germaphobes πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘πŸ‘
I’ve introduced my grandchildren to all sorts of ghoulish things.

MissInterpreted Sat 13-Jul-24 16:04:29

Oreo

MissInterpreted

My six-year-old grandson loves finding bones and skeletons when he is out for a walk with his papa and the dog. At one time, we had a 'skull' tree in our garden where he had put some of his finds. He was very excited when we took him away for a couple of days in our motorhome last week and they discovered a whale carcass on the beach.

πŸ˜„
Little boys are fascinated by dead things.

Delightful little creatures, aren't they? wink

Oreo Sat 13-Jul-24 15:59:31

Maggiemaybe πŸ˜²πŸ˜–πŸ˜„

Oreo Sat 13-Jul-24 15:58:13

MissInterpreted

My six-year-old grandson loves finding bones and skeletons when he is out for a walk with his papa and the dog. At one time, we had a 'skull' tree in our garden where he had put some of his finds. He was very excited when we took him away for a couple of days in our motorhome last week and they discovered a whale carcass on the beach.

πŸ˜„
Little boys are fascinated by dead things.

Maggiemaybe Sat 13-Jul-24 15:54:59

Chestnut

I am literally astonished at these stories! I was never interested in dead animals, nor my children or grandchildren. We never touched them or picked them up. My only contact with dead animals were family pets (fish, frogs, budgies, canaries, mice, guinea pigs, rabbits) where there was no choice!

I must say, I feel the same, Chestnut. One of my lot has attended plenty of autopsies in her career but never showed any interest in corpses as a child.

Though her sister liked slugs. And there’s something worse than being handed a slug by a toddler - being handed half a slug with teeth marks in it. envy

MissInterpreted Sat 13-Jul-24 15:22:34

My six-year-old grandson loves finding bones and skeletons when he is out for a walk with his papa and the dog. At one time, we had a 'skull' tree in our garden where he had put some of his finds. He was very excited when we took him away for a couple of days in our motorhome last week and they discovered a whale carcass on the beach.

PamelaJ1 Sat 13-Jul-24 15:12:57

πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Monica we housed a pet slug for my DGS for a while!

M0nica Sat 13-Jul-24 15:07:29

DGS aged 2-3 was fixated on slugs. As well as family members, the AA man and delivery man, when the front door was opened, were greeted by a small boy with an outstretched hands on which there was a large slug, saying proudly.' I minding a slug.'

Athrawes Sat 13-Jul-24 11:51:24

I would also ensure children washed their hands well but I've nothing against touching the creatures. My dad and I spent time exploring the occasional dead animal and ensured I washed my hands well afterwards. I think it's a interesting way of teaching

Wyllow3 Sat 13-Jul-24 10:48:40

M0nica

Well, providing the child washed their hands when they got home, I really do not see a problem.

I doubt I would have let my children touch it, although now I think about it if one of DC had wanted to take it home to examine it in more detail, I probably would have got a spade to lfit it and take it home, and once the examination had taken place , given it a decent burial.

Same here, tho would have insisted it take place outdoors.

Chestnut Sat 13-Jul-24 10:38:46

I am literally astonished at these stories! I was never interested in dead animals, nor my children or grandchildren. We never touched them or picked them up. My only contact with dead animals were family pets (fish, frogs, budgies, canaries, mice, guinea pigs, rabbits) where there was no choice!

Mizuna Sat 13-Jul-24 10:26:26

My eldest son was fixated by bones as a child. We went to a pig roast (he was seven) and he managed to acquire part of the skull, complete with lower jaw and teeth. His dad boiled it and bleached it overnight and sat it on his bedside table for him to wake up to. I'll never forget the wondrous look on his face the next morning. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

He became a TV producer.

NotSpaghetti Sat 13-Jul-24 10:24:26

My daughter's friend used to disect anything the cat brought in.
She made mouseskin coats for her dolls and had a bones collection.

Her parents had a very rural smallholding so she was quite matter of fact about it - curing skins etc.

Callistemon213 Sat 13-Jul-24 10:11:40

😁 Well done her!