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Daughters New Guy

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GrandadGarage Sat 07-Sept-24 20:33:25

Hi everyone

So…

Some years ago my eldest fell off the rails badly, went into the sex industry, was involved in drugs and criminals she’s had two attempts on her life in the past, much much longer story consequently we took our granddaughter into our care with our daughters consent all underpinned by an SGO

Since this time our daughter has worked hard move away from certain people and has done so; also to develop a relationship with her daughter and they see each other regularly and it’s a positive relationship.

Recently our daughter met a guy; she’s stopped her work and sees him as a saviour… talking of moving in and so on.. he’s changed his name recently he’s nowhere on social media and we highly suspect he’s involved in dealing of course we could be wrong but doubt it and we all see the same red flags.

Our GD is now 11, I don’t see how we can continue to let her go to her Mums if what we think proves to be right

Any advice or guidance appreciated

Thanks