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Ziggy62 Mon 09-Sept-24 08:17:11

To help with joint problems and scoliosis I joined local leisure centre some months ago. There is public swimming session on Sunday morning but only one lane open (the rest of the pool used by various swimming clubs). A young guy (possibly neuro diverse stands in middle of lane, not swimming, shouting up to the life guards. Having an neuro diverse AC myself I decided to go swimming earlier yesterday so I can swim in peace.
As mentioned only one lane available for public swimming, so I'm on my 9th length of the Olympic size pool, thinking I'm doing well when a guy, probably in his 30s crashed into me hitting his elbow into the top of my head. I stopped and he sarcastically muttered "sorry dear". He was doing back crawl at quite some speed and couldn't possibly see who was ahead of him.
Looking back now I should have alerted the life guard, although I'm sure she must have witnessed it. My head was really sore, I managed 1 more length and got out. In the changing rooms I felt quite sick and dizzy. Luckily my husband was outside walking the dog. By the time I got in the car I felt really unwell and started to cry. DH wanted me to go to A&E but I couldn't face sitting there for hours.
Anyway came home feeling unwell, vomited once, my shoulder was agony. Took pain killers and went to bed about 6pm. Feeling OK this morning but have cancelled work today (self employed)
So, after this very long post, shall I complain or would it be pointless as I didn't inform anyone at the time?
Oh just to add this is a problem every Sunday morning I've been, swimmers not showing any respect for others in pool, especially as it's such a small area

Esmay Wed 09-Oct-24 11:05:16

Hi Ziggy -
thought it sounded like concussion .
That is really dangerous .
Next time - and I hope that there isn't one :
Report it and get it checked out straightway .
You could have been rendered unconscious and at risk of drowning .
Last week , a lady fell on the bus due to the driver breaking hard .
We all rushed to help her .
She sustained a nasty bump on the head and refused to report it /get it checked .
She was crying .
The driver yelled at her and I told him off .
I'm still recovering from a fall on the bus . The driver ignored me and three teenagers blanked me .
I lay on the floor until an elderly lady helped me up .
I had an appointment and was in a rush otherwise I would have done something .

NotSpaghetti Wed 09-Oct-24 09:12:31

Yes. walking backwards is good for you - but it's also easier on the legs in the pool.

Witzend Wed 09-Oct-24 08:54:53

Yesterday at my D Lloyd, a woman altered a ‘lane’ sign to ‘Fast’ - and then proceeded to do a few extremely slow, head-up breaststroke lengths.
At the time, there were only 5 of us in the whole pool anyway - plenty of room in the ‘anybody’ section.
Bizarre behaviour!

In the only other ‘dedicated’ lane, a very old chap was just walking slowly for one length, and walking backwards for the next. (No deep end, needless to say). I was wondering whether there’s a particular benefit from walking backwards - an aid to balance or something? Presumably a physio would know.

coolgranny12 Thu 03-Oct-24 14:27:46

YANBU

Witzend Thu 03-Oct-24 08:40:55

Apart from a couple of Aquafit/Aquazumba classes at my local David Lloyd (both full!) there aren’t any weekday restrictions at my local DL, except that 4-7 pm is ‘family swim’ time, so best avoided if you would rather not share the pool with children. Other weekday times are adults only.

Vintagejazz Wed 02-Oct-24 15:37:54

Even most gyms now limit members use during afternoons. Either you can't use the pool at all or you all have to crowd into one lane while swimming classes go on in the other lanes. Mornings are often taken up with aqua fit classes and free swimming is only available early in the morning. It's a shame.

Notagranyet24 Wed 02-Oct-24 14:25:13

I'd like to offer sympathy to the OP and agree with most others about the difficulty of finding a local swimming pool with adequate times and space for different kinds of swimmer.

I think the problem is worse in the south and south west where the population has been shooting up. Before the pandemic and lockdown, you could always book at our local pool and it wasn't overcrowded.

In the last few months, I've just given up. Even in 50+ sessions, three lanes isn't enough. The slow pool is full of very, very slow people, I actually couldn't swim that slowly, plus that lane always has a group of women who stand and chat in the shallow end.
The fast lane is where any men go, regardless of how fast they can actually swim and the middle lane is then a hotch potch of swimmers doing various strokes, often at different speeds. I have a dodgy knee from a knee injury so I don't dare swim breast stroke but I can do a reasonable crawl stroke but mixing breast stroke swimmers with crawl swimmers doesn't often work.
Instead of a swim being relaxing and enjoyable, it has become a frustrating, irritating outing. Swimming can be so wonderful, I'm sad at how pointless it seems now.

Vintagejazz Wed 02-Oct-24 12:27:14

Hopefully they'll be able to identify the man concerned and have firm words with him. The lifeguard should also be intervening when someone is swimming in a way that is dangerous or inconsiderate of others.

Ziggy62 Wed 02-Oct-24 07:47:22

Lol. I haven't been back swimming or to the gym yet. Neck feeling a bit better, not taking as many painkillers.
Looking forward to getting back in the pool

Witzend Tue 01-Oct-24 18:11:12

I recently started regular swimming at my local David Lloyd. I haven’t encountered any collisions yet - I go at relatively quiet times - but one thing I’ve noticed - whenever there’s any really noisy splashing, it’s always a bloke!

There was one such today, making a hell of a seriously splashy racket with what looked like a competent enough front crawl - but in the next lane was a woman doing an expert front crawl, with barely a splash at all!

AGAA4 Wed 11-Sept-24 16:22:49

I hope your pain eases soon Ziggy. It's good news that they will be able to see what happened to you in the pool and sort out a better and safer method.

Ziggy62 Wed 11-Sept-24 16:08:08

Manager of leisure centre called my husband's phone late last night but we missed the call. He rang again today, apparently they have poolside cameras, so I told him what time I was in pool so they will be able to see exactly what happened. I'm still in a lot of pain and pain relief drugs making me very sleepy.

yogitree Wed 11-Sept-24 12:58:00

NotSpaghetti

Mine is a Hilton hotel pool part of "Livingwell"

www.livingwell.com/

My membership includes use of other hilton tools, gyms and some classes.
I like that they provide towels too! This is a real boon in the winter!

Might be worth looking.

Mine is a Hilton hotel pool too. They have stopped supplying towels, except to those staying in the pool. It was a great boon though, before it stopped.

Mirren Wed 11-Sept-24 12:48:20

I have experienced being bumped, kicked , pushed out of lane by other swimmers...though I have not had any nasty bangs on the head like OP. ( I do hope you are ok )
I don't want to be accused of being sexist or judgemental but it seems to me the perpetrators are always male.
I'm 68 , can only swim breaststroke but at a reasonable pace.
I find the worst offenders are bald , overweight chaps who seem to think they're Adonis and own the pool .
It does make me cross , I am afraid.

maybeaye Wed 11-Sept-24 11:08:30

As a regular swimmer in a council pool, I wanted to add my tuppence worth. This guy who bumped into you sounds bloody dangerous. I have only been hit like this swimming in a mass start in a triathlon, never in a pool environment. Very painful, somehow injuries in water are, i often got my hand bumped by a swimmer in the next lane who has a wide stroke. Ouch! This guy must have given you a real whack and the centre need to be on the lookout for him. I agree, one lane sounds ridiculously limiting for space. It is so difficult to find a time when it's good to go to local pools. I'm lucky with the one I use, but it's only available during the day, which means going early or mid day during work. I think the hotel pool idea sounds better if your local place don't get their act together. This guy seriously injured you! Take care, glad you feel a bit better.

Patsy70 Tue 10-Sept-24 21:17:34

That is good to hear. I hope you’re feeling better and can look forward to your regular swimming very soon.

Ziggy62 Tue 10-Sept-24 20:54:19

I have had a number of emails this evening regarding my complaint plus the manager has been trying to call me . Seems they are now taking my complaint seriously

M0nica Tue 10-Sept-24 19:27:32

An incident like this will also be required to be entered on the Leisure Centre's accident log.

Ziggy62 Tue 10-Sept-24 16:44:18

The pool is run by the council, so I've addressed my complaints to the head of the council who deals with leisure facilities

4allweknow Tue 10-Sept-24 16:37:11

Definitely contact leisure cerntre advising them of incident. If the system can cause such incidents then the Centre should address this probably prohibiting certain styles at certain times. The pool has to be safe for everyone.

Ziggy62 Tue 10-Sept-24 16:13:25

Thank you for all your replies.
As mentioned yesterday, I filled in an online complaints from yesterday before I headed to A&E.
Heard nothing, just an automated email to say form had been received.
Sent another email about 30 minutes ago, saying I'd attended A&E, been diagnosed with concussion and given medication. Received a reply, quite quickly saying my complaint has been sent on to complaints manager.
So hopefully it will be looked into.
There is another public swimming session each day between 12.30 and 1.30, (whole pool available)due to work I'm not free at that time every week day but might pop along on from just to take a look at how many are using pool and might go at this time in future instead of Sunday mornings

TiggyW Tue 10-Sept-24 15:33:54

Hope you recover soon, Ziggy.👍 I used to swim at a local hotel spa, which was lovely and quiet with no time restrictions, but it’s too expensive now. It doesn’t allow pay as you go, or a swim only membership.☹️
I’ve found a senior swimmers’ session at a council pool at 3pm which isn’t too busy, but I have to retreat at 4pm when all the children arrive for the family swim session! 🙄

HiMay Tue 10-Sept-24 15:05:28

Definitely report it. May prevent a repetition
Make sure you get medical attention too

vegansrock Tue 10-Sept-24 14:45:32

Sounds like the pool should definitely open more lanes for the public, especially at weekends.

sandelf Tue 10-Sept-24 13:52:12

As the others have said - you have classic concussion symptoms. Go somewhere to have that on record. Then email the pool - copy to your local councillor (and yourself). If lane discipline is a problem more than VERY occasionally, they need to open more lanes or times for swimmers. Explain that you need to swim for wellbeing and exercise and just faffing about in the water will not get the job done!