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Customers who hog tables

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Franski Sun 27-Oct-24 15:08:14

There's a cafe i go to where customers seem to sit on their laptops for ages with just a coffee or water. It's really annoying when you can't find anywhere to sit or watch other customers come in and leave because there are no tables free. I know it's not my business but i feel as though the staff should do something. Its a chain cafe so it's not an independently owned so it feels like nobody cares that much. Grr.

4allweknow Mon 28-Oct-24 16:40:34

I would just ask if anyone was using the empty seats knowing no-one is and sit down especially with a friend and start chatting, loudly!

Greenfinch Mon 28-Oct-24 16:25:17

Sounds tempting Aveline. Will take that on board!

Aveline Mon 28-Oct-24 15:53:46

Greenfinch splash out. Buy lunch, platefuls of scones or cakes make it worth the cafés while to welcome your business

Greenfinch Mon 28-Oct-24 15:43:03

Oh dear! I feel us Gransnetters could be accused of hogging tables when we have a meet up but we do go to restaurants that are big enough to contain us so there is always space for others. We did reject a lovely little one down a side street in Reading a while back for exactly that reason that it wasn’t fair to others.

1summer Mon 28-Oct-24 15:14:17

I was involved in an incident in a cafe a few weeks ago. I was with my daughter and six month year old grandson. Daughter went to the counter while I found a table carrying my grandson. I passed a young man on his laptop but didn’t notice a cable from his laptop to the plug on the wall. My foot got caught in the cable and I stumbled, luckily a lady jumped up and steadied me.
I was absolutely incensed, the young man didn’t even apologise. Myself and daughter complained at the counter and staff totally uninterested.
It’s a chain and my daughter has written to the head office and as yet not received a reply.

biglouis Mon 28-Oct-24 15:02:22

If I ran a cafe I would offer a deal whereby you pay £X for a meal/snack and that entitles you to Y time at a table using my wifi.

biglouis Mon 28-Oct-24 15:00:02

I have never hesitated to add myself to a table occupied by someone else if there are no other seats. I have also moved peoples bags from a seat in order to sit down. No one has ever argued back. But then I am 5 ft 8 ins and told I have an "air of authority".

Aveline Mon 28-Oct-24 14:49:10

grandtanteJE65 these cafes are in business. They have high rents, rates, utilities and staff costs to cover. They're not charities. It's not fair on them to hog tables endlessly on one cup of coffee.

Oreo Mon 28-Oct-24 14:12:49

Mollygo

Something will need to be done, because the advantages of working from home in a café will become more apparent with the rising fuel prices.
If WFHITK increases, the café owners will suffer financially and other customers will eventually go elsewhere.

Good point.

Oreo Mon 28-Oct-24 14:12:19

RosiesMaw2

Some cafes are beginning to restrict WFCS (Working From the Coffee Shop) aka table hogging at busy times
Two coffee shops have introduced policies aimed at stopping remote workers from "hogging" tables and limiting turnover.
The Collective, in Caversham, no longer allows the use of laptops between 11:30 and 13:30 BST on weekdays - with the devices completely banned at weekends.
Manager Alex Middleton said the policy was about finding a "balance", where it "doesn't compromise us losing money".
Newbury-based coffee shop Milk and Bean has also implemented similar policies in hope of boosting turnover.
The cafe recently introduced measures capping laptop use to an hour on weekdays, and completely banning their use on weekends.

Good for them, more cafes should do the same.

Oreo Mon 28-Oct-24 14:11:16

How long can one coffee last?

grandtanteJE65 Mon 28-Oct-24 14:07:12

I believe it is only in Great Britain that people feel obliged to swallow whatever they have ordered of food and drink as quickly as possible then scram so other customers can have the table!

On the continent of Europe, you are at liberty to sit as long as you like, if you have ordered something and are consuming it, and unless there is a sign asking patrons not to use the café as their office, no-one would dream of being annoyed about this.

Granmarderby10 Mon 28-Oct-24 13:32:14

Yes rocketstop

Aveline Mon 28-Oct-24 13:25:28

rocketstop I mean!

Aveline Mon 28-Oct-24 13:24:40

Brilliant Franski!

rocketstop Mon 28-Oct-24 13:13:46

Franski

There's a cafe i go to where customers seem to sit on their laptops for ages with just a coffee or water. It's really annoying when you can't find anywhere to sit or watch other customers come in and leave because there are no tables free. I know it's not my business but i feel as though the staff should do something. Its a chain cafe so it's not an independently owned so it feels like nobody cares that much. Grr.

Wouldn't it be absolute FUN to squish yourself in beside them and say 'Ooh what's that you're doing?' (While pushing your head right up to their screen) Then saying things like 'Is that to a friend or a workmate ? Ooh You need a capital letter to start a sentence.Ooh you don't spell 'Annoyance' with one 'N'

My goodness I bet they'd not get their screen shut fast enough .
Go in the next week at the same time 'Cooeee, hello again, Mind if I sit here, oh good' grin grin

cc Mon 28-Oct-24 13:08:52

If there is no space left in a cafe when I'm occupying a table I would usually offer somebody who is waiting a seat at mine,

Mollygo Mon 28-Oct-24 10:44:55

Something will need to be done, because the advantages of working from home in a café will become more apparent with the rising fuel prices.
If WFHITK increases, the café owners will suffer financially and other customers will eventually go elsewhere.

Aveline Mon 28-Oct-24 10:35:20

There was a lovely cafe near us which we really liked. Gradually, it became obvious that students/the laptop brigade were taking over and hogging all the tables on one cup of coffee while we, who had been planning a nice lunch with wine, had to go elsewhere. Needless to say that cafe has now closed down. sad

madalene Mon 28-Oct-24 10:32:29

Customers who hog tables

They are incredibly annoying, and actually rather rude.

Visgir1 Mon 28-Oct-24 10:18:44

Totally agree. Last year I was in New York and one of the Starbucks had the coffee shop over 3 floors, with the top floor as a lounge area. Thought we would go up to that. Nearly every table, Sofa and bucket chair had someone with a Laptop, and a cup that had probably sat there for a while. Hardly anyone who called in for a drink had anywhere to sit. There were 6 of us, we muscled in took over a table, bit noisy and the looks we got, very funny. We probably spent more than most of those glued to their Laptop all day. Me, I too would put a time limit on it per person, in a small local set up that's lost revenue.

nanna8 Mon 28-Oct-24 10:09:33

I haven’t come across people in cafes plonking down and buying little or nothing. I think here they would be asked to leave. It is also not that common that you see people with laptops,either. Thank goodness.

MissAdventure Mon 28-Oct-24 10:00:59

That's a good idea, I think.
It's a shame for people who have something other than work to do online, but it is a pain to try and fit in around mobile offices.

RosiesMaw2 Mon 28-Oct-24 08:55:24

Some cafes are beginning to restrict WFCS (Working From the Coffee Shop) aka table hogging at busy times
Two coffee shops have introduced policies aimed at stopping remote workers from "hogging" tables and limiting turnover.
The Collective, in Caversham, no longer allows the use of laptops between 11:30 and 13:30 BST on weekdays - with the devices completely banned at weekends.
Manager Alex Middleton said the policy was about finding a "balance", where it "doesn't compromise us losing money".
Newbury-based coffee shop Milk and Bean has also implemented similar policies in hope of boosting turnover.
The cafe recently introduced measures capping laptop use to an hour on weekdays, and completely banning their use on weekends.

Chocolatelovinggran Mon 28-Oct-24 08:50:29

I have told this story before.
On a crowded train I asked two men taking up four places at a table seat with laptops, coats etc if I could sit with them.
One scowled and pointed to an empty seat further down. I sat on this seat, not wanting to share with Mr and Mr Misery.
At the next stop, a crowd of excited young women entered the carriage. Two of them moved the chap's stuff over and plonked themselves down. The others spread themselves out.
The group based themselves at this table, eating, drinking, doing their makeup, lots of happy laughter as they planned their night out. I enjoyed their cheery company, especially since the stunned - looking men who had redirected me were in the middle of this happy mayhem.
They should have let me sit with them...