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Are the broadcasting corporations encouraging smut and innuendo?

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Sago Sun 01-Dec-24 11:37:52

We are all very aware of Greg Wallace and the recent allegations.

It did however get me thinking of two particular famous TV incidents
(there are many more examples).

The first was the totally cringeworthy moment when Mary Berry asked the then Duchess of Cambridge if she would like to”a little squirt” on top.
The second is Dame Pru Leiths famous “ two holes” comments.

Imagine if Greg Wallace or Paul Hollywood had made these comments, it in my opinion it is wrong that women can get away with this and not men.

Also the BBC etc are clearly encouraging this smut and innuendo, in my humble opinion it is unnecessary and embarrassing, good TV shouldn’t need to do this.

AIBU?

MissAdventure Thu 05-Dec-24 15:59:02

Whatever happened to Samantha Janus?
I remember reading that people liked to inform her they knew her dad, Hugh.

Granmarderby10 Thu 05-Dec-24 13:58:53

petra

Allira
Huge Jampton. It’s from cockney riming slang. Hampton Wick which was shortened to Dick

Well it is obviously a Landon fing init! Cockerney Rhyming Slang.

I know. It passed me by too….

Witzend Thu 05-Dec-24 12:47:42

TBH I wouldn’t have found ‘a little squirt’ at all smutty! Isn’t a certain sort of cream known as ‘squirty’ cream?
To me that one is smutty only in the mind of the hearer.
‘Smut’ can be read into all sorts if anyone is looking for it.

Or should I have said ‘if anyone’s dirty mind is looking for it’?

RosiesMaw2 Wed 04-Dec-24 14:32:45

RieW

How are nicotine pouches legal? They're far more potent than ciggies and should never in a million years be available over the counter. You can't drive when they kick in for the first few mins on strength 4 or 5.

And the relevance of your post is…?

RieW Wed 04-Dec-24 12:15:53

How are nicotine pouches legal? They're far more potent than ciggies and should never in a million years be available over the counter. You can't drive when they kick in for the first few mins on strength 4 or 5.

David49 Wed 04-Dec-24 12:01:52

Babs03

Innuendo is not sexual misconduct, it is present in Shakespeare and has been a tongue in cheek tool when chasing the funnies, but it needs a good comedian to execute this well and not simply appear to be rude and off putting.
I don’t think Greg Wallace is a comedian, good or otherwise, I think he is a misogynistic bully who made women appearing on the show feel uncomfortable and insulted.
There is a world of difference.

Innuendo can easily be used as bullying and in a working or social environment, you don’t actually see as much on live TV although obscene language is commonplace now.

Babs03 Tue 03-Dec-24 21:55:25

Innuendo is not sexual misconduct, it is present in Shakespeare and has been a tongue in cheek tool when chasing the funnies, but it needs a good comedian to execute this well and not simply appear to be rude and off putting.
I don’t think Greg Wallace is a comedian, good or otherwise, I think he is a misogynistic bully who made women appearing on the show feel uncomfortable and insulted.
There is a world of difference.

M0nica Tue 03-Dec-24 18:30:27

It is no worse than it has ever been. Innuendo has always been part of humour.

Galaxy Tue 03-Dec-24 16:56:13

To be fair some of the most deeply aggressive sexist men would see themselves as 'woke' - this behaviour doesnt limit itself to a particular political or cultural viewpoint.

MissAdventure Tue 03-Dec-24 16:46:26

I'd hate to have a female family member who told me to grow up, not ruin a man's career, stop being woke.

Allira Tue 03-Dec-24 16:43:12

Ilovecheese

Elegran describes the situation very well.

Yes.

Ilovecheese Tue 03-Dec-24 16:40:57

Elegran describes the situation very well.

Ilovecheese Tue 03-Dec-24 16:39:22

yellowfox says: "Grow up ladies and deal with it.
Don't ruin a man's career."

As I have posted previously, grown up women are dealing with it, They are stating that they don't like it and it should stop. One boorish man's feelings are not more important than any woman's of any age or class,

Forestflame Tue 03-Dec-24 16:32:52

Mary Berry? Sexual innuendo? Really?

Elegran Tue 03-Dec-24 16:02:27

yellowfox

Why do these women have to jump on the bandwagon. years after they have been offended by someone's sense of humour. Surely they can let sleeping dogs lie.
I don't think Greg Wallace set out to offend certain women by his off camera jokes.
Oh my goodness, at 78 I have dealt with so much worse in my time.
Grow up ladies and deal with it.
Don't ruin a man's career.

I don't think he "set out to offend certain people by his off camera jokes"

First of all, it apparently wasn't off camera, it was while they were being filmed, so by causing a distraction during the recording of an episode, he was being a damned nuisance to the whole cast and the technical people too. His stupid words had to be cut out, or the whole scene shot again.

Secondly, his "jokes" would put the women off what they were there to do - to play their role as part of the cast. They were not relaxing off-camera between takes, or after it was all "in the can", they were working. So was he - or supposed to be.

Thirdly, I don't believe it was done in a friendly, joky way. It was a deliberate attempt to disturb them so that they would give a worse performance than they would otherwise give, and look look incompetent, so that he would look a lot better than them. It was competitive oneupmanship, or upstaging. Far from our comments ruining his career, he was trying to spoil their performance and careers - and has succeeded in ruining his own. Time wounds all heels.

Nannyof4mummyof2 Tue 03-Dec-24 12:37:06

People are too sensitive today and have no sense of humour saying that if it were a young fit person saying these things or even a woman would it be taken the same way

TheWeirdoAgain59 Tue 03-Dec-24 09:41:35

I don't see it as smutty or innuendos at all, just a bit of fun.

I don't have a tv and if I did I'd never watch cooking shows, which would quite honestly, bore me into a coma but my favourite saying regarding cream is ''it's for giving your puddin' a little squirt, or your little squirt, a puddin!''

yellowfox Tue 03-Dec-24 07:23:10

Why do these women have to jump on the bandwagon. years after they have been offended by someone's sense of humour. Surely they can let sleeping dogs lie.
I don't think Greg Wallace set out to offend certain women by his off camera jokes.
Oh my goodness, at 78 I have dealt with so much worse in my time.
Grow up ladies and deal with it.
Don't ruin a man's career.

Wyllow3 Mon 02-Dec-24 18:51:12

polnan

I agree with Ex Dancer

For pity's sake ladies - grow up and deal with it!

I acknowledge that it can be difficult for many people, but is this the so called wokery taking control, or hopefully, trying to take control..

How on earth are those complaining on here about innuendo "woke"? Surely the opposite?

or do you mean whose complaining about Greg Wallace "woke"?

polnan Mon 02-Dec-24 18:30:56

I agree with Ex Dancer

For pity's sake ladies - grow up and deal with it!

I acknowledge that it can be difficult for many people, but is this the so called wokery taking control, or hopefully, trying to take control..

Nonnato2 Mon 02-Dec-24 17:45:25

Dinahmo

Nonnato2 The BBC does not have a left wing bias. Each political party accuses them of favouring their opponents. If you cast your mind back to the Brexit period they had difficulty getting decent Brexit supporters on to the political programmes because most didn't want to appear. Thus we were left with the likes of Mark Francois who had very little to say of any importance.

You have your opinion and I have mine.

Oreo Mon 02-Dec-24 17:09:35

There’s def more smut on tv than in days of yore, less innuendo tho as now they come right out and say it.Celebs like the awful Jo Brand and Miriam Margoleys have no filter and neither do many male celebs either.So to answer the OP yes I think they do encourage it.

Dinahmo Mon 02-Dec-24 16:24:21

Nonnato2 The BBC does not have a left wing bias. Each political party accuses them of favouring their opponents. If you cast your mind back to the Brexit period they had difficulty getting decent Brexit supporters on to the political programmes because most didn't want to appear. Thus we were left with the likes of Mark Francois who had very little to say of any importance.

MillieBoris Mon 02-Dec-24 16:23:54

This whole situation with Greg Wallace is getting totally out of hand. Today it has become the leading story on the news! Ukraine and Gaza have become second place. And as mentioned on here the comedy programmes I was brought up on as family viewing included smutty Benny Hill, Charlie Drake whose eye level was constantly at female chest level etc etc - even Morecambe and Wise shared a bed. Admittedly Wallace went over the top with middle aged women rant but come on - I’m not condoning it but it’s getting completely out of hand. I certainly can’t imagine Penny Lancaster being intimidated. Going to be interesting.

Dinahmo Mon 02-Dec-24 16:21:39

Most programmes, as has been said above, are made by external production companies. Masterchef was made by a company called Banijay UK.

Wolf Hall was a co-production with 2 external companies plus the BBC.

Can you imagine the outcry if the Beeb employed 100s of staff just to watch tv programmes for offensive material - the cost would be enormous.