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To expect good manners in Theatre Audiences

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SueDonim Sat 14-Dec-24 23:16:40

I took one of my little GC to a children’s theatre show (not a pantomime) today. It was about an hour long. There was a little noise with children talking to the actors, which was quite funny, but none of the children seemed to be eating anything and not one of them left to visit the toilets! They were all under 5yo.

Perhaps adult audiences need to take note of children’s awe and wide-eyed wonder at the delights of theatre. ❤️

keepingquiet Sat 14-Dec-24 22:20:17

I do think the FOH staff should be better equipped to deal with difficult people- maybe there just aren't enough of them?

Maybe it is time to issue warnings about zero tolerance of bad behaviour when booking tickets.

All that said Shakepeare's audiences were a pretty rowdy bunch by all accounts!

Casdon Sat 14-Dec-24 22:10:29

I’m surprised the ushers are letting people in once the performance has started. At my local theatre if you miss the start of the show you have to wait outside, or if you’re lucky they show you to a seat in the wings, when the theatre isn’t full.

Babs03 Sat 14-Dec-24 21:58:29

@Galaxy I can believe it
@Cossy is insulting to the actors or musicians/ballet dancers for people to disrupt a performance, and also very annoying for those who save up all year just to be able to enjoy these performances.
When we went to the theatre many moons ago any theatre goers who were late would have to wait until the interval to go to their seats, but now it seems people can barge in at any time. 🙄

Grandma70s Sat 14-Dec-24 21:55:38

I’ve been to concerts and other performances where people aren’t allowed to walk in late. They can sometimes watch the performance on closed circuit TV until there is a suitable break, when they are allowed in.

Cossy Sat 14-Dec-24 21:48:10

I agree! Going to the Theatre or a classical music concert SHOULD be done with decorum. People walk in late, rustle their sweeties wrappers, throw their rubbish on the floor and talk!

I think it’s the height of ignorance and rudeness.

Galaxy Sat 14-Dec-24 21:41:18

I was at the theatre last week - it was the first time I have been (other than a panto!) since covid. The audience were awful.

Babs03 Sat 14-Dec-24 21:38:34

This is from a piece about disruption during a production of Macbeth -

‘Earlier this week, an audience member who refused to wait for a break to return to his seat disrupted a performance at the Harold Pinter Theatre on Panton Street.
The Doctor Who star, 53, was told to leave the stage for 15 minutes as the objector insisted on getting back to his row and “then lots of people kicked off”, witnesses said.’

The simple fact is we can’t afford to go to the theatre very often but love to see a performance in the West End. However, we have seen a deterioration of good theatre manners, with audience members arriving late and shuffling to their seats obscuring people’s view of the stage during the production, drunk members shouting out and clapping for no good reason, and of course people going on their phones. I saw a man in front of me playing some kind of game on his phone rather than watching the production.
I think this deterioration is to some extent due to theatre goes being allowed to take drinks from the bar into the theatre and even have drinks served to them in their seats. Certainly if someone can’t wait a couple of hours to go without a drink is something wrong. And such drinks are hardly a treat, served in nasty plastic cups.
Surely better to have proper drinks either before or after a production.
Rant over 🤔