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Concerts - to sing along or not?

(30 Posts)
ViceVersa Mon 24-Feb-25 15:51:52

I think it depends on the type of concert. If it's an indoor venue and the performer is asking people to sing along, or if it's an outdoor or stadium rock concert, then that's fair enough.

valdali Mon 24-Feb-25 15:45:55

I suppose a loud anthem I wouldn't mind too much, but if it was someone singing a cappala or something like Eva Cassidy -style, I would be very cross.

Desdemona Mon 24-Feb-25 15:37:16

No you are not!!

I hate any kind of audience participation unless it is requested by the performer.

I also chatting, phones going off and rustling of food packets in the cinema as well.

If I am paying good money to go and watch something or someone I want no distractions.

Retroladywriting Mon 24-Feb-25 15:36:47

No YANBU. I only sing along if encouraged to do so by the performer. I do lipsync though!

sjw62 Mon 24-Feb-25 15:35:01

It seems to the thing these days that you don't go to a concert to hear the artist, but to screech as loud as you can while 'joining in'. I would be loath to pay all that money to see someone and then be stuck beside a screaming banshee who wants to sing along with every word. AIBU?