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A baby is a human child and that alone!

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Sago Tue 11-Mar-25 15:47:50

I always cringe when people refer to their animals as their babies but today was the final straw.

I went on an online forum for Thermomix, someone posted that “their baby had died”, she was affronted at posters being angry.

So this person was comparing a kitchen gadget to a human baby.
It shows a complete lack of emotional intelligence and maturity IMHO.

Am I being unreasonable?

Allira Wed 12-Mar-25 09:58:52

I wonder if our last dog spoke Welsh?

He could speak English too but with a Welsh lilt.

Allira Wed 12-Mar-25 09:57:40

Churchview

"I always talk to my dog in an American accent. Always have done with all my dogs over the years. No idea why. But I don't call her my baby." Rula

grin When our dog 'talks' to us she does so with Bristol accent as that's where we rescued her.

She's not my baby, but she is my friend and she's 'gert lush'.

😂😂😂

Iam64 Wed 12-Mar-25 09:57:34

Churchview, my spaniel has a midlands accent despite living in the north west since 8 months of age 🐶

Cossy Wed 12-Mar-25 09:50:57

Personally, I think that’s bonkers!

We adore dogs, and they are as much part of the family as our children, but they are not humans and kitchen appliances certainly are not!

Each to their own, I guess!

Churchview Wed 12-Mar-25 09:38:42

"I always talk to my dog in an American accent. Always have done with all my dogs over the years. No idea why. But I don't call her my baby." Rula

grin When our dog 'talks' to us she does so with Bristol accent as that's where we rescued her.

She's not my baby, but she is my friend and she's 'gert lush'.

Georgesgran Wed 12-Mar-25 08:37:11

It would seem a human baby over 12months becomes an infant - but I’ve never been asked to infant-sit my DGSs.

Iam64 Wed 12-Mar-25 08:26:01

What a lot of irritation towards not much.
My dogs are ‘the dogs’. When my daughter’s dog stays, I walk her with my female spaniel, leaving my big male lab to be taken out separately because he isn’t as easy to manage as “the girls” . Come on girls I’ll say and off we go. He hears this and goes to his bed. None of them are due babies, not in any way.

My daughters are heading for 40 but are known as ‘the girls’.

Allsorts Wed 12-Mar-25 07:49:12

I don’t call anyone baby and would never be called it, however I don't get offended if others use it. Can think of far worse.

Astitchintime Wed 12-Mar-25 07:44:21

Personally, it is of no consequence to me how anyone refers to their pets. Keeping a pet can have a positive effect on the owners mental health, particularly if they live alone.

What I do object to is anyone picking up their pet animal and lunging it at me to 'introduce' it.

Aldom Wed 12-Mar-25 07:40:41

According to the Oxford English Dictionary, Baby can be a Noun an Adjective and a Verb. Common usage.
So, no, not just to be applied to a
human baby.

Kandinsky Wed 12-Mar-25 07:31:31

I understand how important animals are to some people, but when announcing their death don’t say ‘my baby died’ - your baby hasn’t died. Your pet dog/ cat has died.

escaped Wed 12-Mar-25 07:30:21

karmalady

kids are baby goats, not human children and how many use the word kid for a human child.

Kid is a very old English word coming from "Kind", meaning "child", hence Kindergarten.
Or so I learnt studying languages at uni.

nanna8 Wed 12-Mar-25 07:26:14

Do you not realise how very important animals are to some people ? How insensitive.

nanna8 Wed 12-Mar-25 07:25:04

There’s some miserable bs around.

escaped Wed 12-Mar-25 07:12:50

I often say machinery or electrical equipment "has died", but not "baby".
I call my dog, "young man," but never my "baby", so like now "walk time young man!"

Georgesgran Wed 12-Mar-25 07:11:59

I think there are some harsh comments here over a four letter word!
Who knows what someone’s life is that revolves around an animal that is referred to as his or her baby. DD1’s first dog, was known as my Grandog!
Others might refer to a project as their baby - something they are lavishly all their care and attention on. My friend and her garden comes to mind.

It’s just a word.

As for couples calling each other babe - I can think of a lot worse.

Kandinsky Wed 12-Mar-25 07:05:57

got

Kandinsky Wed 12-Mar-25 07:04:31

What’s that good to do with talking about the death of pets?

karmalady Wed 12-Mar-25 07:01:05

kids are baby goats, not human children and how many use the word kid for a human child.

Kandinsky Wed 12-Mar-25 06:59:39

YANBU
I remember seeing a post on mumsnet titled ‘my baby boy died last night’ - turns out it was her dog hmm
Very insensitive for people who have lost children.

mum2three Wed 12-Mar-25 06:18:24

I can't believe how pathetic some people are. I think Charles Dickens was a great observer of people. He has included some very weird people in his stories. They must have been based on people like this!

nanna8 Wed 12-Mar-25 06:02:50

My two cats are my little girls. I have 4 real live proper ones as well. Sometimes I call them the BLGs when I call them and they don’t want to come on. ( bad little girls) . Does it matter ?

V3ra Wed 12-Mar-25 01:55:13

My husband refers to me as "Mummy" when he's talking to our dog, for crying out loud 😒😠

BlueBelle Tue 11-Mar-25 23:57:42

Ohhhh Furbabies and rainbow bridges set my teeth on edge it’s as bad as nails on a chalk board

Rula Tue 11-Mar-25 23:29:36

I always talk to my dog in an American accent. Always have done with all my dogs over the years. No idea why. But I don't call her my baby.

However I would never refer to her as my baby in public!

I loathe furbaby. It really annoys me.

And I would never refer to any household item as a baby either.