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To discourage self employment for adult daughter

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TakeThat7 Fri 16-May-25 22:25:25

She has money and no worries that way let her take a chance.

M0nica Fri 16-May-25 22:23:47

Why will she not be making weekly contributions to a pension if she goes self-employed? I assume it is the state pension you are speaking of.

If she is self employed she will be expected to pay towards her state pension. I suggest you look at this link www.gov.uk/government/publications/your-new-state-pension-explained/your-state-pension-explained Within this document several sections refer directly to self-employed people.

She can also make contributions to a personal pension as well, although contributions to the state pension scheme should take priority.

If she has rheumatoid arthritis, and is finding work the struggle you describe and she thinks she can make an adequate income going self-employed then I think that is a very sensible idea.

Bear in mind that if her income as a self employed person is below £12,750 a year. She will automatically be credited with state pension contributions. I quote from the above document
If you’re self-employed, your Class 2 National Insurance contributions are treated as paid if you have profits from £6845 to £12570 in the 2025 to 2026 tax year. You pay Class 4 National Insurance contributions when your profits are above £12,570 in the 2025 to 2026 tax year.

In your case I would be giving my daughter every encouragemnet to go self employed, but help her to set up all the paperwork she needs to satisfy the Inland Revenue.

As it is clear that you can afford it, why not pay a tax accountant to help her set up her accounting ssystem and explain to her what she needs to do and when to keep her tax situation in order?

TakeThat7 Fri 16-May-25 22:23:10

She sounds low in confidence maybe would help if she makes her own decisions Being self employed can be good for some people what does she want to do

Jaxjacky Fri 16-May-25 21:56:16

Which twin are you?

TopsyAndTim Fri 16-May-25 21:29:38

I am very worried about my 40 year old daughter.
She works as bank staff in a care home but is struggling as she has rheumatoid arthritis and feels she gets treated badly. She is also getting less and less work due to the homes cutting back on staff due to the national insurance increases.
She does Self employment work too but I've told her this will impact on her pension as she won't be making weekly contributions.
She still lives at home as has no partner and as we are wealthy, she will be fine once we pass but it is a real worry for me.
She says she can't cope with being treated badly and the physical strains of the job. The other day she came out with a migraine and vomited all evening due to stress but as I say, it is her pension that she needs to be thinking about.
Can anyone advise ? She has a lot of savings as is very careful with money. She contributes financially and to the home too but the future is a concern.